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Full History - 2022 - 02 - 17 - ID#sv1htz
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Elderly Grandma lost vision pretty suddenly. Seeking activities for her as most all of her hobbies involved vision. (self.Blind)
submitted by shmayjay
My grandma lost most all her vision pretty suddenly about 2 years ago. Due to the pandemic I have not seen her much since but have heard her woes of feeling like she can't do anything anymore. She is 96 and had been very independent previously. She spends most of her time listening to reruns of TV shows. She also never learned anything of the internet claiming she was too old and had no need. What are some activities she can enjoy that do not involve vision? I have been hoping to compile some ideas or purchase some gifts to help keep her occupied and in high spirits.
notoriousbsr 3 points 1y ago
Hey her signed up for BARD, the audiobook service for the blind from the Library of Congress.
On mobile so I don’t have the link but google BARD and you’ll find the forms.
Free player, free audiobooks sent via mail, an app to listen on phone or pad, and can download from their website and put on usb for their player.
shmayjay [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Thank you! This is exactly the kind of thing I'm looking for! I have been trying to come up with ways for her to have some audio entertainment while being so behind technologically Shipped to her house or filling a USB for her could be the ticket! Looking into this more now, thank you again!!!
mrmaaagicSHUSHU 2 points 1y ago
Lots of free audiobooks on YouTube and from the library. Book clubs can also be fun and social
jage9 2 points 1y ago
What were her hobbies previously?
shmayjay [OP] 3 points 1y ago
Sewing and gardening were her primary hobbies. She spent a lot of time going through her belongings and reorganizing things. She enjoyed going out for day trips to look at purses and shoes, often not purchasing and just admiring. And she has also always enjoyed doing laundry quite a bit oddly enough. She enjoyed fashion and I've tried my best to tell her about what I'm wearing when I do see her to try and tap into that aspect of things.
athennna 5 points 1y ago
Has she tried knitting or crocheting? Or embroidery? A lot of it is very tactile.
shmayjay [OP] 1 points 1y ago
I mentioned knitting to her last time I was there and she didn't seem too excited about it. When she gave it a try many years ago, she quickly leaned into sewing harder as I don't think at the time she was interested in making practice projects. I'm certain she'd improve quickly as I kept her original knitting attempts (bc she was going to trash them) and the second "wash rag" she knit turned out excellent. She made a comment in passing last time I was up, that she was just certain she had more time. I have felt kind of at a loss on how to help and have wondered if she's depressed due to the condition she's found herself in rather suddenly. I will do some more research into the crafts you've mentioned. Maybe if I can figure one out, I can help teach her to do it tactilely rather than by sight. Thank you!
athennna 2 points 1y ago
I would try something like embroidery, you can set it up for her to be larger and more tactile. Use cross stitch fabric that has a looser weave and a grid so it will be easy for her to find holes to stick the needle through. You can get a big plastic needle and thin yarn instead of embroidery thread to start. Start with something basic like the outline of a flower, something that will be easy for her to feel. Get her a needle threader or thread a bunch for her in advance.

Boye Plastic Yarn Sewing Needle Set, 2pc https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07K7D2RS9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_J18MJFRSG219S9D2RWDA
shmayjay [OP] 1 points 1y ago
I mentioned knitting to her last time I was there and she didn't seem too excited about it. When she gave it a try many years ago, she quickly leaned into sewing harder as I don't think at the time she was interested in making practice projects. I'm certain she'd improve quickly as I kept her original knitting attempts (bc she was going to trash them) and the second "wash rag" she knit turned out excellent. She made a comment in passing last time I was up, that she was just certain she had more time. I have felt kind of at a loss on how to help and have wondered if she's depressed due to the condition she's found herself in rather suddenly. I will do some more research into the crafts you've mentioned. Maybe if I can figure one out, I can help teach her to do it tactilely rather than by sight. Thank you!
TechnicalPragmatist 1 points 1y ago
I don’t see why you couldn’t do any of those reasonably well as a blind person blind people can sew indeed, mostly with the manual way maybe even with a machine.

I don’t garden myself but know blind people who do and don’t see why she couldn’t do that.

Blind people can go through their hobbies and reorganize things too.

Blind people can definitely definitely do their laundry. And many independent things around the house.


Blind people can go out to stores and feel clothing and purses usually with a friend and she can feel all of them and appreciate them.

Just do those things but adapt them.
exul_noctis 1 points 1y ago
What about gardening on a smaller scale? Growing plants in pots might be easier to manage than a full outside garden, and they can be kept indoors or outdoors.

There are lots of flowers and herbs that do really well in relatively small pots. Many smell good, too, and sensory stimulation can help with mood. Lavender, sage, mint, lemon balm, rosemary, etc, for herbs. Daphne, gardenias, roses, primrose, peony, etc, for flowers. Creating a 'scent garden' could be a fun project!

Seeds may be too hard to manage, but if she started with little seedlings, she should be able to monitor them and take care of them pretty well herself.

When you have a sudden loss of agency and you end up feeling unhappily dependent upon other people, being responsible for taking care of other living things that are dependent upon you can help you feel useful and needed, too. I had a long stay in hospital and was lucky enough to be allowed to grow a bunch of seedlings in pots in the communal garden, and it definitely helped having something outside of my own head to focus on every day - little growing things that needed me.

I got a real kick out of growing dwarf sunflowers in particular, because they grow super-fast, and I could give them away to other patients to make their rooms more cheerful when they started flowering. Being able to do nice things for other people can give you a real boost.

Growing veggies or fruit trees could be an option for that, too. You can grow all kinds of vegetables in medium-sized pots, and dwarf fruit trees as well. She might be happy to be able to give away produce she grows and harvests herself to family and friends - carrots, broccoli, silverbeet, cherry tomatoes, chives, chillis, lemons, mandarins, cherries, strawberries, etc. Or use them for cooking, if it's something she enjoys!
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