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Shaving as a blind person (self.Blind)
submitted by LyingSlider7
i was hopping to get some advice from my fello blind men i myself am fully blind for context so currently for my face i am using an electric razer like one of the ones with the 3 boll things that you just slide over your face which works pretty well except for last time somehow i stanaged to give myself pretty bad raazer burn. So i would like to start shaving my pubic/anal hair most likely with an electric razer as its the option that i feel like would work the best for me besides hair removel cream which i would also like some brand recomendations what i was mainly looking for is advice on the best electric razer to purchase for down there and advice on how to use it as ive never done this before ive heard good things about manscape ones but i know they have several models and i don't know what the differences are and i also just wanted to get some advice from other blind men i really want to learn as the hair is starting to get in the way im about to just cut it with scissors just to shorten it. As for the one for my face wouldn't mind some advice for using that one as well in order to prevent future razer burns what i have been doing is going in slow circles with it but i don't know maby some of you have a better methad sorry for the long post thanks in advance
Emmenias 8 points 1y ago
I'm not a huge expert on electric razors, as I use a blessedly manual safety razor (they're amazing!). But I imagine the basics apply all the same. Don't shave in circles, but actually pay attention to the direction your hair grows, map it, and follow it. Shave in passes, first with the grain, then accross it, then optionally against (that is most likely to irritate your skin).

Are you dry shaving? If your shaver allows it, switch to wet shaving instead. Shave after a shower, or at least wash your face thoroughly, as that will soften the stubble and make it easier to cut. Apply shaving cream or soap, preferably lathered up wtih a shaving brush, as it will offer protection for your skin (it's like a skin for your skin), and the brush will lift up the hairs for easier shaving. Of course, check the instruction first to see if water and soap are something your machine can handle.

What are you doing to soothe the skin afterwards? Do you have a post-shave balm or aftershave, and if so, do you think it works well? It may also be worth getting an alum block (I recommend Osma), as that will further help close any nicks and soothe the skin.

Down there, the same instructions apply -- except that you have to be even more gentle. Shave with the grain, and go against it only once you've mastered that, so not for the first few shaves. Pay attention to your body, and if anything hurts, don't just push through, but STOP. Make sure to apply alum (optionally) and a post-shave balm (not an aftershave unless it's alcohol-free) after shaving, and give the area plenty of space to breathe as it recovers (no wearing tight pants, try sleeping naked or just in your underware).

Of course, all this advice is not from a man. I'm just someone who has to shave their face because of PCOS and their body because ... well, all bodies are hairy. So given your emphasis that you need advice from men, feel free to ignore this if you'd rather. :P
LyingSlider7 [OP] 4 points 1y ago
Thanks I still appreciate it I normally just dry shave I will see if I can wet shave as that sounds like a better idea when you say that do you mean shave as my face is wet? And I was thinking I would most likely use face wash. As for after I normally put lotion that was recommended to use for my face I do have aftershave but it has alcohol I believe and it is normally one that I wear when I am about to go out normally put it on every day before school also what kind of razor did you say you used? Never heard of it
retrolental_morose 3 points 1y ago
absolutely a wet shave is much, much easier on your face, not to mention your more delicate bits! A good electric shaver is waterproof. I have an old back injury, so I shave in the shower whilst amping up the water temperature to soothe my back. shaving foam helps lifts the hairs without hurting you. u/Emmenias is quite right about not shaving in circles. A thin shaving brush can help determine where you want to shave too; you can almost use it to map out a path on your face. my only issue with my face being all lathered up is not taking off too much hair in a single pass; that's why going along the grain - shaving with the direction your hair naturally lies will naturally pull the longer hairs off first.

Hair removal cream can be really difficult to apply accurately without site, so how neat you're after being will determine how much practice you get I suppose. I've had best results with my beard trimmer for the front to be honest, and a gloved-up finger for the other wise.
Emmenias 1 points 1y ago
Well yes, that's what wet shaving means. But I am by no means saying you should shave over just water. Wet shaving requires some kind of lather (preferably from a shaving soap or cream, but canned foam will do in a pinch), or at least shaving oil.

Face wash is meant for washing your face. If that's what you'd be using it for, go ahead. It is not an adequate substitute for a dedicated shaving product. It will offer neither protection, nor slickness.

A face lotion can do the trick I suppose, but it sounds like it isn't for you. Look into an actual post-shave balm, Generally, the rule of thumb is that you can use a post-shave balm as a face moisturiser, but can't really use a face moisturiser as a post-shave balm, unless your skin is particularly resilient and doesn't need much to stay happy.

I said I use a safety razor, also called a double-edge razor (or shortened to DE). According to wikipedia, the first pattent for them was released in 1880, although they were around even before that. So not as old as the good ol' straight razor, but pretty old! They were created because a straight/cutthroat razor was difficult to use for many people without them nicking themselves, and enjoyed great success up antil Gillette switched to advertising the bullshit that is multi-bladed cartridges.

Most safety razors are made from three pieces: the top cap on which you place a thin double-edge blade, the top with the safety bars that you put over it to create the head, and the handle that you screw that head onto. Generally, all these pieces are made out of metal; for cheaper models, this is a zinc metal alloy shined up with crome, which can last for decades if taken care of but is possible to damage if dropped, and the more expensive are made from stainless steel, or in some cases aluminium or titanium.

I can only speak about safety razors in comparison to cartridges, because that's what I've used. But I can say that since switching, I've gotten much less razor burn; turns out more blades just irritate the skin more, rather than helping somehow. Safety razors also basically can't clog, where as carts do that immediately. They're cheaper, with one cartridge costing three euros or more where as you can buy double-edge blades in bulk, with each costing only about 20 cents. And they're better for the environment, since the blades are metal and can be recycled, and they generally come in cardboard boxes, wrapped in paper.

They are manual razors, obviously. They require some time to master, patience and care. If you want to just kind of wave a razor over your face and be done, they'll punish you, as you have to shave gently. But I've actually found it really relaxing to slow down and actually enjoy the shave, rather than treating it as a chore to get over with. Relaxing with a hot towel over your face, mixing up a lather that's just perfect -- not too thick and not too runny --, the feeling of the soft brush tips on your face, the delicious smell of artison soaps, the sound of a razor cutting off the stubble bit by bit, the feel of a perfectly smooth and non-irritated skin, the feel of applying the (also wonderfully smelling) balm; all amazing things!
sallynick 6 points 1y ago
I know this isn’t for everyone but would you consider waxing the area instead and getting it done professionally. The results last longer, will be accurate and it’s safer if a professional does it. You can ensure you get the proper hygienic aftercare too. There will be loads of experienced beauty waxers who deal with both males and females and have “seen it all before” if you’re worried. Just an option!
akrazyho 3 points 1y ago
Do not buy any of the man scape products. They are overpriced and not great trimmers. Here is a beard expert on why the most popular trimmer is a terrible product:

https://youtu.be/pHH_09mlDkY
bradley22 3 points 1y ago
Yeah, I bought manscape stuff, the trimers are shit.
Nedskee 1 points 1y ago
I could not agree more with the opinions het eon the manscape stuff. The no nicks thing is just crap.
bradley22 2 points 1y ago
It is.
LyingSlider7 [OP] 1 points 1y ago
oh thanks for letting me know any recomendations for good ones then
akrazyho 1 points 1y ago
This was a video that was recommended across my feed so I don’t have any recommendations unfortunately.
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Moteltulsa 3 points 1y ago
You have to get decent razor oil and you need to sanitize that. I usually do before and after use.
Simply_Limeade 1 points 1y ago
Not a dude but I highly recommend epilating. Rips the hair right out and makes it nice and smooth.
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