Honestly? He doesn't sound like someone I'd date. His problem isn't being blind, it's being picky AF. I've tried out a whole bunch of things I wouldn't normally like just to be in the company of my friends; I'd do many more for someone I was dating!

Also: "He doesn’t like to use any sort of assistive devices ..." What the hell is this?
He will have to. He is blind. It is unavoidable. If he wishes to have some sort of independence, at any rate. And if he doesn't, do you really wish to spend the rest of your life babying him?

TBH, some people on this sub might take offense at this. We do get a lot of the "oh but I don't want to use a white cane because then I would look blind!" types. Well, I wouldn't want to date those either. Not until they get over that. It'd be exhausting, even if I was sighted. And it'd be exhausting because dealing with people who are clearly lying to themselves always is.

He needs to learn a little about relationships, you know,give and take. My wife and I did things that were fun for the other person. She went to movies with me, she wasn't into star trek, and I went to movies with her that she liked. She was into royalty and all that stuff. Just haver fun doing things together.

oh yes, should have mentioned that I'm also totally blind. we lived in Vegas and p played the polker machines together. She'd just glance over and read me my cards. She's been gone eleven years and I still miss her. Apppreciate and enjoy the time you have together.

What about visit to a brewery or winery?
It’s too bad he doesn’t want to use additive technology but that’s a different conversation.

If you like being active you can try indoor rock climbing or try riding a tandem bicycle. I’ve also done trivia nights with friends.

as everyone else has said he needs to be more comunicative about what hes into a suggestion maby a walk/picknic along the beach or i personally like walking on little nature trails around like a lake or something ,

Sounds like he needs to be more honest about what he likes. Sounds almost like everything you bring up, he's shooting down. That's like visiting a new city to see your friend, then your friend telling you to plan the evening.

If he isn't able to communicate what he likes to do, or compromise a bit, that does not bode well for the relationship. I hope that's not the case! After all, it's one paragraph and I'm not living your life.

Check his social media to find things he's talked about or enjoyed doing. If there isn't much, maybe he doesn't enjoy going out. I hope things work out! Good luck!

Take a pottery lesson.

Trivia night somewhere?

Bowling?

I didn’t get much worse after losing my sight 😉 it can still be fun anyway.

Conversely I hate mini golf but nearly managed for a friend’s birthday.

An escape room near me claimed to be accessible- it wasn’t totally but with the others talking I was able to get involved

What about a nice dinner and going to a play or something or musical?

Honestly it sounds like he's expecting too much out of you. It's unfair to "give you the task" of planning the date, give you no suggestions for what he likes, and then shoot down all your ideas. He sounds ridiculously picky and hard to please. If he's being this demanding and selfish (this early in the relationship especially), it should give you pause.

If you go out on a date night? Dinner at Olive Garden, who pays?
Perhaps a picnic at the park or a beach…