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I've been seriously depressed due to sheer boredom. I simply cannot find any interests since becoming legally blind last year. please help. (self.Blind)
submitted by ParakeetYeeet
Lost my sight as a 28 year old guy last year. I have complete central vision loss in both eyes. I can't find a hobby and I am so sick of audiobooks and podcasts and tv.

I've tried crocheting, macrame, origami, musical instruments, and exercise but I'm just not getting into them even after months of effort. I don't live near anything and the ride services near me are non existent.

Please suggest some ideas to ease my boredom.

Thanks for any help friends.
xmachinaxxx 26 points 1y ago
Are you getting help for the depression? I also became legally blind a little over 3 years ago with central vision loss. The depression has been a bitch. I’m wondering if the depression is what’s making you feel like you can’t enjoy the hobbies you’ve tried? Just a thought.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 17 points 1y ago
I think it's a vicious cycle of depression and boredom. I do see a psychologist and am medicated. I snap out of depression when I have a purpose (even if it's as simple as doing a craft). Sorry you're also dealing with this issue :(
PromiscuousAlien 9 points 1y ago
Agree with this 100%!!

You might not even realize that you might be depressed or overwhelmed and seeking some help might be beneficial. I didn’t realize I was falling into a depression from gaining vision!! Who would of thought that!

Incase you don’t want to do that, do you have restaurants close by? Out here we have a lot of live music and going out and being around folks is fun. Also what kind of exercise have you been doing?
Cautious_Ad_1054 1 points 1y ago
Stargardts?
xmachinaxxx 1 points 1y ago
Sorry no. Diabetic retinopathy
Cautious_Ad_1054 1 points 1y ago
Ah that’s interesting. Well we both have no central vision either way
thatawkwardcosplayer 17 points 1y ago
There’s a lot of blind friendly video games on itch.io, they even recently had a game jam just for making games for blind people.

I’ve gotten into paragraph role playing and long furby creation as well!

You could also try volunteering at places (soup kitchens, daycares etc) if you like to help out.

Some areas also offer rural transit via gov services so maybe check into that? Its pretty limited though and I’ve only seen it in TX and NM.

Coding is also a pretty popular blind person hobby.
King_of_the_Dot 15 points 1y ago
You could try Dungeons & Dragons play by post games. So everything is typed out and you can follow the story more easily.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 8 points 1y ago
Ooooo I love DND I'll check that out thank you
Aeristria 3 points 1y ago
I second the D&D suggestion. Roleplaying is my primary escape, both in play-by-post and live games. You could even try becoming a DM, employing methods and tools that are specific to you managing your specific needs.

I've been without my right eye for two decades and the vision in my left is incredibly poor. I still have central vision but the quality of it is abysmal. Being fairly housebound for lacking transportation reasons also has led to a depression that, as of yet, I haven't been able to treat. Investing yourself in places and people that aren't here and aren't me can be very cathartic.

I recently asked another subreddit for $1 on ideas to make preparing for sessions easier when you have conditions that are easily overwhelming (such as ADHD) in hopes of finding others who could relate to me, even if their circumstances were from a different source. Some people touched on things that might prove useful to an aspiring blind GM; one of which going on to state that some of the official sourcebooks are readily available in audiobook format for the blind, if you were to seek them.
Terry_Pie 2 points 1y ago
Are you on the Knights of the Braille Discord server yet?

It is a Discord server for blind/vision impaired tabletop roleplayers.

$1 (Note: Link expires in one week)
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 1 points 1y ago
I am now! Thank you!
King_of_the_Dot 2 points 1y ago
Good luck! I know you said youre tired of podcasts, but I have a couple for you to look up if youre into comedy. Hey Babe is great. It's Chris Distefano and Sal Vulcano from the Impractical Jokers, and they just riff the whole show. Then there's Taste Buds. It's Joe DeRosa and Sal Vulcano again and they simply argue about which food is better. Chris Distefano also has a solo podcast called Chrissy Chaos with the occasional guest where he goes on wild riffing tangents. All 3 are great if you like comedy in general.
SteppenTele 2 points 1y ago
Your post reminded me, in a roundabout way, of radio shows from the 1940s and 1950s, long before television became mainstream. Those stories and shows were fantastic. They could be an interesting break from audible books. I don’t have a link to share, but I know that some sites are out there that stream classic radio shows.
King_of_the_Dot 1 points 1y ago
Oh that is a good idea! Thank you.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Oh boy you're not going to believe this but hey babe is my fav podcast by far! I'm listening to it as I type this! I didn't know about Chrissy chaos though!
King_of_the_Dot 2 points 1y ago
Check out 'We Might Be Drunk'. It's with Sam Morril and Mark Normand. They're both great traditional comics, and their podcast is more kind of serious overall in tone, but still funny. If you like history, check out 'The Dollop'. It's an American history podcast, with the occasional non-American based episodes, where one guy reads the story, and the other guy has no idea what the topic is about. They're both comedy writers/comedians, and not only are the topics fascinating and informative, but Gareth Reynolds, the clueless guy, does voices, goes off on tangents, and riffs so well. I laugh a lot multiple times an episode. Start off with '10 cent beer night' if you really want an idea of what it's all about. It's also got like 500 episodes, so there's a ton of content.
ThisBlindChickReads 12 points 1y ago
I am legally blind since 26 and with a diagnosis of becoming totally blind 8n the coming years ... And also have ADHD ... I feel your pain of trying to find interests that I am motivated to keep and that provide some sort of fulfillment.

I have a need to create but find the process frustrating at times when I think of how much easier things were. So, I try things I didn't do before.

I found acrylic pour painting extremely soothing and rewarding ... Friends and family have asked to purchase a few pieces. There are 2 YouTubers I was inspired by that show neat techniques, Molly's Artistry and Mii Paintings. I do mine on used drumheads I get from my drummer friends.

I also have been studying different languages. This satisfies my brain's need for information and learning, plus there is tons of research that shows that learning languages is great for the aging brain. I am working on Dutch and Czech.

I used to write, but can't really see my handwriting anymore ... So I have started a video journal with the hopes of maybe posting something on a YouTube channel ... But for now I just sort of mess around with editing programs.

I hope you find something that works for you ... Best of luck!
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 9 points 1y ago
That's really cool! Good luck with your struggles and also with language learning. It's tough being blind and having mental health issues
SteppenTele 3 points 1y ago
For studying a foreign language, I suggest getting a shortwave radio, which sounds expensive but isn’t. Tune the radio to a station that broadcasts in the language you want to learn. Leave it on all the time. Doing this helped me become fluent in a “difficult” language. I think linguists call it ”immersion.”
ThisBlindChickReads 1 points 1y ago
That is a great idea! I will definitely search one out
SteppenTele 2 points 1y ago
I should have mentioned that picking up a station on shortwave radio can be tricky. It’s not the same as picking up a local radio station. It will help to find a schedule that lists what is being broadcast and at which times from the nation that interests you. Online schedules are numerous. Some are easier to understand than others.

Prices range from $25 up to hundreds of dollars. Eton has a wide range of radios that can receive shortwave, and a couple models are in the mid-market range.

I hope it works out for you.
Minister_of_Joy 3 points 1y ago
Hey! How do you study foreign languages? I love doing this, too (I actually have a background in linguistics) but since I've lost practically all of my functional vision, it has become so incredibly hard to learn new foreign languages. I don't like apps such as Duolingo because they're so unsystematic and sort of... all over the place. They're also not helpful for advanced learners.

I've tried out Rosetta Stone; bought a six-month membership. It's quite expensive but the program is worth it. Or rather... it WOULD be worth the money if I could see the pictures. Rosetta Stone's learning techniques are very systematic but unfortunately the program uses a ton of pictures and I can't see them.

Ideally, I'd love to attend language classes, either physically or virtually. However, I know that if I do this, the teacher will ask us to buy an exercise book and I won't be able to do the exercises or read the grammar explanations because it's all in a physical book.

So please tell me how you do this, I'm super curious!
ThisBlindChickReads 1 points 1y ago
I have an audible subscription so I download the pimsler books and listen /practice while I am doing things around the house ... I also use youtube. I can't see what they flash on the screen but hearing the language from a native speaker is my favorite. I switch back and forth and then in everyday I will ask my Alexa how to say certain words and phrases. I'm not learning them quickly but that is fine with me.

At one point I downloaded babble ... But like you say, they rely on too many vidual tools that are useless for me.
chrmaury 7 points 1y ago
Another legally blind, central vision person. I clearly don’t know the specifics of your situation, other than what you’ve shared. But I would encourage you to seriously consider/think through moving to an area that is more walkable. I know it’s possibly a big change on top of the major changes you’re already dealing with, but being able to walk places is a hugely important for a sense of independence.

It is a change that can really lower the barriers to many different hobbies, work, volunteering, etc.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 4 points 1y ago
I wish I could but it's not feasible currently
chrmaury 3 points 1y ago
I get it. You’re best bet is finding a community in whatever you do, and I wish you luck in finding it. I think I’m going to try that D&D by post thing myself.
prairiesailor 6 points 1y ago
Have you ever heard of amateur (ham radio)? There are quite a number of blind hams on the air. It can be a geeky hobby or a social hobby, or combination of both!
RobbieC69 6 points 1y ago
Hi. I'm legally blind but still have little eyesight left. I used to be a Personal Trainer, so loved exercising. The only exercise I can do now is to go on walks. I have severe Nystagmus.

I now also have Vertigo and very loud Tinatis, so my balance is near enough gone.

What I am doing with these long days is doing short online courses. Programming in Python is one of those courses. I use DataCamp and is free. I get regular newsletters from - Finxter, Chris is a pro and now considering doing a freelancer course to become a Data Scientist. I'm not that clever, but I am confident I can achieve what I want to do vin the future.

Stay optimistic(positive) in life, not pessimistic(negative) 👍 hope this helps, best of luck.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Vertigo is the absolute worse. I started getting it about 3 years ago from migraines. Programming is certainly an option though, thanks!
CosmicBunny97 4 points 1y ago
What did you like doing before?
TechnicalPragmatist 4 points 1y ago
What about self-work and intropspection. I got in to the typology stuff like 7 years ago and it’s fun. You learn an extreme amount about yourself, who you are good, bad, ugly, fantastic.

Also what did you enjoy doing before you lost your vision. Why can’t you do those? If you can tell us or me we can try to help you adapt it sure you can do some or all of them.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 3 points 1y ago
I've gotten into that big time before as well. I like Myers Briggs but also the big 5 is nice too.

Before my vision loss I crocheted, embroidered, and played video games that are unfortunately not very fun with my eyes anymore.
TechnicalPragmatist 2 points 1y ago
Oh very nice. Not many blind people are in to it and it could be fun and a lot of self awareness would help some other blind folks. ESTJ who’s in to it. Haha! Anyway. Have you looked in to the enneagram or the others? May be worth your time and will take up some. Maybe the perspective with the e may help you with the depression hahaha!


Also that other stuff all sounds doable besides video games. There are a lot of audio games out there and card, and word games. Out there. I use to crochet as a blind person and know it’s possible and embroidery is too.
Fridux 3 points 1y ago
I went through the same for 5 years after going blind, and although all I wanted was to die I wasn't diagnosed as clinically depressed by any of the 5 psychiatrists, 3 psychologists, and 2 occupational therapists that I talked to over the years. Eventually I figured that programming, which was my main occupation before going blind, was totally doable with this condition and within my reach, so things got better. Since it happened to me, I can fully relate to the sentiment of boredom without being depressed, as I've always been a person of narrow yet deep interests.

I do not have anything I can suggest to you though. Getting back to coding worked for me because I already had over a decade of experience when I went blind so I could just build stuff with the knowledge I already had and use that to further motivate me into learning new things. If I was to start from scratch now I do not think technology would pique my interest, since without sight there isn't much to appreciate or impress people with in the beginning of the learning journey.

I still pay for psychological counseling these days, not because I think it will help in any way but just because I like having someone to talk to about my current life as well as how much I miss my sighted days. My life is currently suspended awaiting either for a cure to glaucoma or death, but at least now I'm somewhat entertained.
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Glad you have been able to make progress on your mental health and get back to an activity that you had once enjoyed! But I do know how you feel regarding waiting for death. I'm not suicidal by any means, but everything ends up feeling like a distraction that will inevitably just distract me until I die
Anita_Spanken 2 points 1y ago
I really think you would benefit greatly from doing volunteer work, particularly with this depression combo. Soup kitchens, etc.
Regular_Principle_66 3 points 1y ago
same here. you could try text RPGs. I'm sure there's some software that does text to speech for that.

could also try going to the gym
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 3 points 1y ago
I'd like to try text based rpgs but I'm not sure I know how haha
Regular_Principle_66 2 points 1y ago
there's many decent RPGs on itch.io, for free. there's search tags on the website, it's easy to use. If you could use text to speech, I have no idea. I know that auto-translation mods for unity games exist, so it wouldn't really be stretch for a text to speech one to be made.
Rethunker 2 points 1y ago
Have you tried programming? That could keep you busy.
wingedwrists 1 points 1y ago
paraclimbing
earthz1227 1 points 1y ago
Sighted person here I recommend d&d. I guess working out too and I think trying to learn a language if you have the time.
BlakeBlues 1 points 1y ago
There are games like chess or text based RPGs?
ParakeetYeeet [OP] 3 points 1y ago
Oh really? Text based rpgs sounds cool if they're narrated. Thanks !
BlakeBlues 1 points 1y ago
I haven't played any recently, but I'm sure there are some nice ones out there on steam or published elsewhere!
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