When I say bad I don’t mean “bad working.” I mean “bad attitude.” She has always been super condescending to me. I can’t handle it. It reached a boiling point yesterday. Small context is that I’ve been working on myself a lot. I have Autism and I make it no secret. But I was able to prove myself by winning barista championship last year all the way to district level! So here is the story today: I walked in with a new haircut I really liked, and her first response was “hey I like your haircut, but I like (another coworker’s) more.” In front of customers by the way. How uncalled for. Way to embarrass me not thirty seconds into walking in before my shift. I got on the floor, trying to brush off what she says. Not ten seconds after I get on, “oh hey can you go on customer support? The condiment bar is in need of work.” She’s not a fucking shift! Even the shift needs to remind her that. I was getting her some cups and a few fell out of the sleeve. I have been working on my anger, so I decided to just calm myself. She wags her finger at me and just goes, “no no don’t do that!” I know she’s a nanny and that’s how they talk to kids with special needs (my girlfriend works with special needs kids so I know this.). She did this in front of a line of customers. It made me embarrassed. I didn’t want to talk to her. I had to get milks and she was back there and wouldn’t stop blaming my perception instead of her actions. I couldn’t hold myself I just said “I’m not happy with how you talk to me. You talk to me a nanny talks to a child.” She got upset and called my manager who I talk to tomorrow, and told all of our mutual friends. She tried to leave early. Our old coworker came in, and I told her how one of the people working at another store wanted to have me there, still in front of customers, she goes “you should go, this place would be better without you.” Why in front of customers? Even the shift and I talked on my ten and he saw it how I did. She has the chance to be the bigger person, being older and working with kids, but she chooses to elevate it and be hostile with me. I have to talk to my manager tomorrow. Is it bad to feel like I’m in trouble? What do I say to my manager? I just need advice because I don’t wanna be written up or in trouble for this.