I feel like such an asshole(self.starbucksbaristas)
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yeahcanigetuhhhh10 points4y ago
Honest mistake! Just acknowledge it with them and it'll be easier as you become more mindful of that (:
EvenTheKitchenSink2 points4y ago
I’m sure they’ll understand if you talk about it with them, it doesn’t sound like you were meaning to be rude. I have a stupid question though, if someone wants to be referred to as They, what do you say in this situation? Do you say Excuse me They? Or excuse me You?
RavenFlawedPrefect2 points4y ago
I had a partner also use they/them and they jokingly called us “comrades” as a gender neutral term so you could say “excuse me comrade” or “excuse me friend”
EvenTheKitchenSink1 points4y ago
Ah
arcandsaw2 points4y ago
When I was training to be a shift I did the same thing to a partner at the store I was training at, and my heart immediately sank so low. I apologized, they were super empathetic because I was in over my head that morning, and we are still friends after my time in their store. Just let them know you care about and respect who they are and as time goes on it’ll just become natural.
Tarisiantil1 points4y ago
I had the same thing happen. Honestly, just communicate with them and let them know it was a slip and that you are aware of thier preferred pronouns and are consciously trying. Usually they will be pretty understanding and appreciate that you are trying your best.
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