i really want to put in my two weeks but i’m afraid it will break my managers heart and i don’t know how to do it. i love the money i’m getting but it just is so stressful i feel like it’s the worst it’s ever been. and i was thrown onto the floor without any formal training. still never been formally trained. i don’t know how to do it. i feel the longer i wait the more i just want to walk out and ask for someone to cover my shifts. please help. pretty please
Selbran28 points4y ago
Put your own health before the needs of others (Especially your workplace). Your manager will no doubt adapt without you and it’s their own fault for not training you and then throwing you into the deep end. The money for this job isn’t inherently great nowadays (In my area Starbucks is $10 an hour whereas other places are $12) and so unless you need the benefits I wouldn’t place a great weight on it.
That being said, make sure you have a job lined up before quitting.
awkwardunicorn2212 points4y ago
I literally just put my two weeks in today and I was feeling everything you are. The truth is they will survive without you and you have to put your best interests first. Good luck!
baristabop [OP]7 points4y ago
thank you. i feel like it just becomes too much when i have to flex to do dishes and take orders and make drinks at once
awkwardunicorn221 points4y ago
I feel your pain it’s soooo stressful
sweetinasense8 points4y ago
As a SM, I can tell you that I am constantly worried about my team. Our team has been through a LOT in the last few months and we’re struggling to get back on our feet. We’re short staffed (as is everyone, apparently) and the team we do have is 1/2 green bean, so they can’t handle bar during the rushes yet.
This puts pressure on those of us more tenured; there’s frustration all across the board....... including me. I’m trying so so so hard to keep the team happy and treat them as well as they deserve. From my perspective, I would hate to lose them, but I would totally want to know how they’re feeling. I would try to work with the partner to alleviate some stress, but would understand if leaving was the right call. Ultimately, your health and happiness is worth more than the job.
❤️
baristabop [OP]2 points4y ago
yeah i get so stressed that i feel worse trying to talk to my SM about it because she goes through a lot already and it makes me feel like i can’t leave because i’m one of her few more experienced. it feels like i’m leaving my family and i don’t want to do that to my team.
sweetinasense0 points4y ago
I get it. Truly. But, as a more experienced partner, maybe you could take on some additional responsibility and grow yourself with new challenges and help your SM simultaneously. I have a SS who took on the weekly order, food management, and printing the weekly update and it has been wonderful working beside him to grow his skills. He says the job has renewed excitement bc he’s learning new things (he was a xfer on the brink of quitting and hating life at the bux when he came to us)... maybe something worth discussing anyway. Good luck!
whatismineisyours7 points4y ago
Not to sound mean or anything, but it's Starbucks and the turnover rate is high. People will always apply and they will find someone to fill your spot.
They might not be able to find someone with your personality or work ethic but that's on them. You can just put in your two weeks and not have to explain. People move on for many reasons.
NopeNope442 points4y ago
So, I just started recently, and already someone who had been at my store much longer than me quit on the spot. Everyone’s attitude was basically like, “ok, we’ll get by without you.” First of all, this is a high-turnover type situation where they are used to people leaving for all sorts of reasons. It’s a hard job that most people (including myself) wouldn’t be able to do for a long time, and it’s also the kind of job people take while in school, as a supplementary income, etc. Always, always put your health and happiness first if you are financially able to. If your manager is heartbroken, they shouldn’t use that against you, they should be happy you are putting yourself first and moving on to something that will work better for you. If they don’t, that probably indicates some other, deeper issues that may be best to part ways with anyway. I wish you luck, you can do it. Also, if you do put in your two weeks, they will appreciate it a lot more than if you just have to leave!
baristabop [OP]2 points4y ago
i know i would hate leaving without notice. the benefits are really nice i just feel like it would be better working somewhere i can feel relaxed and not worry about a dozen people tapping me trying to get me to take their order when i’m trying to push out drive drinks.
NopeNope442 points4y ago
I totally understand, it’s a very intense stressful job, especially if you don’t feel adequately trained. They do have great benefits, but also weigh the benefits of not having to be that level of stressed haha. Maybe it’s just a rough patch but maybe a change could be good. Good luck!
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Lurn2spel1 points4y ago
It’s not your job to run the store. Quit if you want. It’s a managers job to figure it out which is why they make salary.
baristabop [OP]1 points4y ago
it feels wrong not giving an explanation tho
brieeeeeeeiiiiyyy3 points4y ago
They don’t need an explanation. Just say it’s for personal reason you don’t feel comfortable sharing. Or be up front and honest and tell them it’s for your mental health.
baristabop [OP]1 points4y ago
thank you so much i feel this helped. i just feel weird leaving a note on the desk asking to put in my two weeks
Dankmoms992 points4y ago
Don’t ask to put in your two weeks, if you’re going to do it do it. The reality is you have no obligation to provide reasoning, or even two weeks notice, the two weeks is just considered polite.
Alicat-and-Quasar1 points4y ago
How long have you been working there? Is there another store nearby you'd be willing to drive to?
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