last night a man who goes by the name “Hung”, someone known for being creepy towards our female coworkers and stares a lot, was caught masturbating to one of my coworkers and when she told me frantically that she had to leave the floor my manager asked if I saw Hung in the cafe. when I looked up he was staring at me while he continued to touch himself. when he realized all of us saw him he panicked and fled the cafe. next to him were two 16-year olds, an older lady, a man working quietly on his computer. he didn’t care. we did what was required, we called it in and our store manager came in immediately. the police were notified and took in a report. but the rest of the night was quiet for us, we worked quietly when usually we laughed and joked and had fun. my shift felt guilty for not being able to protect us and the customers better but we don’t feel any resentment towards him... it’s just not his fault. the rest of the night I was suspicious of every male customer. I felt paranoia if I felt like someone was sitting facing me, I felt like I was being watched. we are supposed to be a third space, we are supposed to feel safe at work. and while i’m glad i’m not going into work tonight, I can’t say the same for the other closers tonight. I hate him. I hate this man that violated my safety, my coworkers and myself. he’s disgusting and I daydream of throwing boiling water on his groin if I ever see him again
AnonymousF578 points3y ago
I am so sorry this happened to you. My stores in a sketch area and we have stuff like this happen sometimes too. It sucks that people are so crazy.
S50013563g9 [OP]4 points3y ago
he hadn’t come in in a long time so I forgot his face even though he seemed familiar. I wish I saw him before he started because maybe we could’ve prevented it
beanbarista7 points3y ago
something similar to this happened to me but it wasn’t in the store but in the lot, some guy parked right besides me and i didn’t think much of it until i got out of my car and realized he was starting at me with his dick completely out, masturbating... i was sooosooo uncomfortable for the entire day and even for days after bc i was afraid of seeing him again.
S50013563g9 [OP]2 points3y ago
i’m so sorry
beanbarista6 points3y ago
but i’m sooo sorry this happened to you, i really can’t comprehend what goes through these people’s heads
sdrawrof03236 points3y ago
We had this happen with a regular at our old store with a creep. So disgusting
[deleted]-4 points3y ago
" it’s just not his fault. "
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Is Hung retarded? This isn't acceptable at all. Even a mongoloid is capable of learning the word No.
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Two points on the matter: Most functional men aren't going to do this sort of thing nor are they going to even imagine it. And for what it's worth, our culture has a very skewed outlook on sexuality. Rather than look at it from the perspective of a dangerous creep, it could nullify the negative effects by laughing it off like some idiot toddler obsessed with his own willy.
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Is there a male coworker who can tell that sicko to get the fuck out? I'd risk getting fired if it meant standing up to myself against some creepy fuck masturbating in my store. Your manager needs a backbone.
caffeineheadached9 points3y ago
u need to check ur self using the words mongoloid and retarded like that
[deleted]0 points3y ago
I had to. When is the opportunity to use Mongoloid going to arise again?
You're not wrong, though.
S50013563g9 [OP]3 points3y ago
while I agree with you it’s unacceptable, he isn’t a child. he has told us he goes by hung because he’s “well hung”. he isn’t a mentally disabled person, he is someone who continuously goes to stores and masturbates to girls because he is a predator. i’m not going to laugh it off, i’m going to call the police the next time I ever see his godforsaken face again
[deleted]2 points3y ago
Now that you mention he isn't disabled, I wouldn't want you to laugh it off or tolerate it. Escalate this as high as you can. Call the police. Talk to a detective. Bring this to management's attention.
This is a serious crime (in the United States)
S50013563g9 [OP]2 points3y ago
yeah okay i’m glad we are on the same page lol. thankfully we did all of that last night, the rest of our crew in morning and mid are aware of the situation and i’m glad that my store manager came in on her day off to come in quickly to check on us and help us through the process
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