I told my SM about an issue I was having with a shift who seems to like making my life a living hell, and how I wasn't comfortable talking to them because I knew they would take it personally and have an even bigger vendetta against me. My SM then proceeds to bring the shift in the back to where we were talking and have me explain the problems I was having to said shift. I tried to frame it as constructive feedback (because they're a newer shift) but then it just ended up being the shift blaming me for everything. Needless to say, ever since that conversation, the shift has been even worse.
If you ask for some anonymity with the SM, are they allowed to just go ahead and tell the shift it was you? My SM does this every time someone has an issue with the shift that they need help resolving, and it usually just ends up making things worse. I don't even know what to do at this point, because if I tell my SM, the cycle is just going to continue.