A shift at my old store put the moves on not one, not two, but 3 baristas. He couldn’t take a hint. Long story short, he got fired. Before he was fired it was super awkward and uncomfortable. Don’t be that guy.
Plus it is a rule that you can’t be romantically involved with anyone outside of your position. You have to think long term too, with her being your boss and all.
wooperquil2 points3y ago
Well since I’m a barista, I feel like it might be a little different? I don’t know, but if she’s not interested, she’s the type to straight up tell me so, and I will 100% knock it off if that’s the case. I’m not even sure that anything would happen anyway, but 🤷🏽♀️
cadmiumchey5 points3y ago
Yeah, there is. It says relationships that are personal or romantic aren't okay if one of them is in a position above the other. But, sometimes managers don't give a shit 🤷🏻♀️
wooperquil1 points3y ago
fuckkkkkk
lilBalzac3 points3y ago
She don't like you anyway #realtalk
Just kidding what do I know? Nothing!
wooperquil2 points3y ago
haha you so funny 😒
cadmiumchey3 points3y ago
Being a former manger, my DM almost had me fire two partners because they were dating, one was a barista and the other was a supervisor.
wooperquil1 points3y ago
That’s fucked man I get that it’s not the best situation cause there could be favoritism, but I mean couldn’t you just schedule them at different times?
cadmiumchey2 points3y ago
It was difficult because they had the same availability, and then the barista would pick up the end of people's shifts with that supervisor so they could purposefully work together. So, it's tricky, and might work if you guys don't work together much.
kirbykyd4 points3y ago
If there’s another store in your area you can transfer and date her. Me and my ex-wife both worked at Starbucks for 3 years where I was a shift and she was a barista. We made it work by being at separate stores.
wooperquil3 points3y ago
Hell, I’d transfer if she’s serious! 😂😂😂
kmoney16312 points3y ago
I met my boyfriend of 2.5 years as coworkers at the same SBUX!! The only bad thing from it is that I couldn’t promote to shift while working with him. Other than that there’s no problem with it if y’all the same level
wooperquil1 points3y ago
Unfortunately I’m a barista and she’s a shift sooooo oof
RDHjake2 points3y ago
There’s new rule stating two baristas can’t date (granted they keep it relatively professional) but you cannot date a subordinate/supervisor
wooperquil1 points3y ago
Lameeee
Caffeine_Slinger1 points3y ago
So, let's game this out.
You date. Initially it's bliss. But, statistically speaking, the odds aren't in your favor. The match isn't perfect and your relationship deteriorates. Things get tense at work, too. Your coworkers seem be feeling awkward around the two of you. Maybe you even suspect your SSV is talking to other baristas about how the relationship is starting to sour. Uncool. You start feeling like you're being made an example of, coached more harshly than necessary, what have you... The end is nigh; you're both great--just not together.
Can your relationship end without you feeling like your, now, former lover was using their power at work to undercut you for a while before ending it or having you end it for them? Can you still work with this person you couldn't have a personal partner relationship with? Is it worth the potential for trouble?
Don't plan for best case scenario. Plan for the worst case scenario. Your sanity will thank you for it later.
wooperquil2 points3y ago
I mean I’m used to feeling that way anyway. I’d rather find out how it would end than never knowing at all, you feel? but I already know it’s not gonna happen lmao she’s way older than me I know that sounds naive af, but honestly she seems like a really mature person so far so
Caffeine_Slinger2 points3y ago
Whatever you decide, good luck!
draahstopter1 points3y ago
I’m a shift supervisor and I’m dating a barista I work with. My SM is fine with it as long as we don’t make it an issue. Obviously no special treatment or favoring. I’m assuming we’re doing a good job keeping our relationship out of work since we’ve been together for almost five months now and we close together on a regular basis lol. I even double checked with our DM before actually starting to date. I would highly suggest talking to your SM before making any moves though.
wooperquil1 points3y ago
Off topic but that’s cute as shit I aspire.
dontreedintoit0 points3y ago
I met my now as husband while we both worked at Starbucks so make the move!!!
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