I’m just saying many genuinely don’t know the name, I didn’t know the names of anything before starting to work here, the more “creatively”/uniquely made/named drinks aren’t as well known by many guys. Of course this is anecdotal, but even in middle school my female friends had these “weirdly” (at the time) named drinks, while my male ones just drowned their coffee’s in sugar and cream.

And I get that a lot, but I don’t see the problem with it? But I also believe in both intrinsic and societally assigned gender differences (prefacing this with no a transphobic, as I don’t want any account stalkers taking this out of context), so my view is much more neutral with these kind of instances. I don’t even notice when guys get stereotypically feminine drinks, but mentioning is usually a way to break any possible tension or awkwardness felt or created by the customer.