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Starbucks Baristas: The daily grind

Full History - 2020 - 06 - 18 - ID#hb9flb
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Someone who sexually assaulted me stopped by my store the other day and I am SHOOK! (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by TessaFink
I have to open today and literally haven’t slept all nice. My alarm is going to go off in 20 minutes and work until 10am. This is my first shift after them stopping in and my brain will not rest. I’m so anxious that they will come in again now that they know I work there.

I’ve been trying to tell myself it’s unlikely because I’ve never seen them in the year and a half I’ve worked there. But I know I won’t be rested until they don’t show up tomorrow.

My manager was really supportive. I’m just overwhelmed.
ImJB6 13 points 3y ago
This happened to my family member who was also a SB barista and manager. The only thing you can do, is remind yourself that you are in control of the situation this time. If the person comes in, get your superior to remove them. Have them also inform the person that they will be reported for stalking if they show up again. Have security or another coworker walk you to your vehicle. If the person comes by after that, follow through on the threat and call the police. File a report. Let your bosses and union know. The best thing you can do is draw clear boundaries and STICK TO THEM!! You’ve got this!
Maddyc0709 9 points 3y ago
I totally understand. I guy who sexually assaulted me in high school stopped in my Starbucks one day and saw me. Now he comes by multiple times a week. My coworkers all know so when he comes in, they have me go to the back until he leaves.
low_rolla 6 points 3y ago
I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💔 you should definitely execute your right to refuse service if they ever come in your store again
TessaFink [OP] 2 points 3y ago
Can you explain that right? I’m not fully aware of the details of that
[deleted] 4 points 3y ago
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TessaFink [OP] 1 points 3y ago
I’m a shift, so yeah I agree.
katgat 2 points 3y ago
I am so sorry, am I’m so glad you felt comfortable enough to talk to your SM about it and they are supportive. But I am so sorry you’re dealing with this
CuriousPersonGuy -1 points 3y ago
Did you... decaf them at least?
TessaFink [OP] 1 points 3y ago
They mobile ordered so I didn’t know it was them until after their order was ready. Also, pretty sure they don’t drink caffeine so I have to find a way to caffeinated a passion tea 🤣
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