Thank you. I put up a fight at my last job and it made things worse. I just want to deal with this as quietly as possible so I don't end up having to quit again bc I truly love this job. When I'm on morning shift, i thrive. Im just worried I won't get as many hours if I switch, which are already low, but I cant stay on nights shift anymore.

I have corrected them multiple times. Nothing changes. It's just wasting my breath at this point. No point in correcting them just for them to get annoyed at me and not change it

Just wanted to update: I talked to my manager earlier and he is putting me back on the morning shift. I asked him to keep it between us and just go about it as quietly as possible. He told me he would help me fight to be respected if I wanted but i told him I don't want to and he is respecting that. He was actually baring with me today and after we talked, I think he noticed how often i was getting misgendered bc he looked at me every time and gave a look of "want me to handle it?" But didn't say anything bc I asked him not to. When I talked to him, he looked really disappointed. I know he works really hard to make sure i feel supported and safe and I imagine finding out how bad it's been was probably hard for him. My sm is amazing. He told me that if I change my mind and want to report it or have him talk to people he will do it but it's completely up to me. I really appreciate that my sm never pretends to understand how hard this is on me yet still tries to understand it. He attends things specifically to find the best way to be a manager to a trans employee and honestly, most managers wouldn't do that. Before covid started, he scheduled for me and him to go to a meeting with other trans partners and managers to help me meet other trans partners in the area and for him to get more education and understanding but unfortunately it got canceled. He was gonna go to that meeting even if I didn't go bc he wanted to be the best manager he can for me. Starbucks itself might be lacking in some areas but my manager doesn't let that stop him and I'm so incredibly lucky to have him.

My manager is super supportive. He doesn't know it's been going on. I just want everything to go as quietly as possible bc when i put up a fight at my last job and corrected people and reported it and it got so bad i had to quit