The correcting is a bunch of different little things, like, have full conversations with customers, hand out items in their order, etc. (Obviously my shifts have stated this nicer, and I summed it up pretty bluntly for the example.) I understand that these are all valid things and I have made an effort to comply with them. I could be missing conversations with other partners, maybe I should look out for that, honestly, sometimes I forget that I'm hyper-sensitive and not everybody is overanalyzing everything, thanks for reminding me. I have been working on checking my reactions more, and that's why I'm trying not to be super defensive about it to them.....sadly pretty sure I'm failing at this, I still feel as if I need to be defensive, and often my feelings win over my logic.

Probably this will wind up the usual case of I'm really overreacting, and I clearly need to figure out how to not be hypersensitive.........especially at work when there are so many stressed people and I just pick up on that and become a very irritable person which never helps anybody I wish my emotions didn't affect me as much as they do......and yes this is a genuine thank you for reminding me that feelings suck and are rarely useful