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Starbucks Baristas: The daily grind

Full History - 2021 - 01 - 14 - ID#kxj8f9
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is it worth it to report discrimination 6+ months later? (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by DiscardedBabe
hey starbucks partners 👋

so around this time last year i was hired as a barista at a cafe store. after 5 or so months, the store manager who hired me resigned & we got a new sm along with an assistant sm. i ended up being discriminated out of that store (for being a transgender woman) within a month.
i could tell the new sm wanted me gone before we even met. every time they spoke to me they found a way to bring up that i’m trans, usually with microagressions. ex: in a store meeting pointedly said “if you’re a man you don’t know what it’s like to be a woman” while trying to make eye contact with me, encouraged ignoring “oddball pronouns” and misgendering non-binary people, and in private they would often other me by bringing up that i’m trans at inappropriate times & in inappropriate ways.
the assistant sm was pretty similarly uncomfortable with me & constantly called me “man” even though he didn’t refer to any of the other girls that way. one day (2 or 3 days after reopening from lockdown) he yelled @ me & threatened to fire me after i told him he left the bar a mess. i had a meltdown (i’m autistic) and although i told him i couldn’t talk at that moment he made me come to the back & wouldn’t let me leave while he yelled @ me less than 2 feet away without wearing a mask.
afterward i refused to work with him again and of course the sm used that as a way to remove me from the store. they transferred me to another store and made me sign a write up with incorrect info on it, saying i wouldn’t be able to transfer if i didn’t go along with it. the write up implied that i swore on the floor (i didn’t) and put exclamation marks after things i said with a neutral tone to make me seem insensitive. it was a “final warning” write up even though i hadn’t ever been written up before then.
my new store was welcoming & i didn’t have any issues while i worked there but i have since separated from the company. that new store was much busier and it pushed me into burnout (autism term; lots of sensory pain & i couldn’t speak for like a month) so i had to separate 😔

so ANYWAY i’m wondering if it’s worth it to report it this far down the line? i haven’t because i figured since they tricked me into signing a write up nothing would happen and i would just end up being blamed for what happened to me?
i haven’t up to this point been able to pursue the issue myself because of how distressing it is, but it’s eating away at me. i just don’t want this to happen to anyone else. i know the truth but i’m worried people will try to twist it against me at this point. what do y’all think?
[deleted] 5 points 2y ago
If you have proof of the things you’re saying, then it’s worth it. If you don’t have proof, it’ll be your word versus theirs and since you’re no longer with the company, they won’t put in any effort to investigate.

Either way, I’m sorry for what you went through and I hope that you’ve found yourself a better situation since.
FelicityCecilia 4 points 2y ago
Im so sorry that happened. I dont have advice for your situation but I see you. Dont let the Transphobes get to you too much, they will be at every job you work. 💛
urlocaltransboy 3 points 2y ago
I think you should absolutely report it. As a trans barista (non-binary trans man) this is my absolute nightmare. Report it and push it as hard as you can. Those sm’s should be held accountable and potentially fired. No one should have to work in that kind of environment and I’m glad your second store was much better for you. I’m also glad you recognized your limits of working in such a chaotic position and quit for your own health. I admire that.
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