i had to tell her two weeks in bc i had hyperemesis and needed to make sure i could run off the floor when needed! the smell of bacon eggbites used to kill me lol
hlycml [OP]4 points2y ago
This!! And just the smell of coffee right now kills me 🤮
yukhentai5 points2y ago
yeah it was a struggle, everything was revolting! congrats btw, and dont be afraid to speak up so you can have adjustments made for a healthy pregnancy! 💕💕💕
mayor-em3 points2y ago
I waited, 3 months maybe? nothing urgently came up, just told them when to expect my leave and then return. If you need anything else let me know!
hlycml [OP]1 points2y ago
Thanks!!! I just turned 12 weeks so I’m thinking of telling my SM real soon.
buggedblonde2 points2y ago
Just here to say congratulations! 🍾
hlycml [OP]1 points2y ago
Thank you!!! You’re sweet!!!
Imsounfrappy1 points2y ago
ASAP. The beginning of your pregnancy is the most important. You don’t want to be stuck doing clean play and whatnot. At least the first trimester you want to take it easy. Too much heavy lifting can cause a detachment, then a miscarriage can happen. I know this from personal experience.
hlycml [OP]1 points2y ago
I’m an opener so the one thing I am worried is just carrying boxes to put away in the morning. 12 weeks into pregnancy and I’m surviving! Definitely will let my manager soon. Thanks!!
iwantmysharpieback1 points2y ago
From a legal perspective, you are never required to. You could go into labor in the bathroom and it's still none of their business. The choice is yours based on YOUR needs. Don't let anyone at the store tell you otherwise. Pregnancy is a protected class at the job site. (Disclaimer: not a mom. Just a protective workplace organizer and anti capitalist law student)
hlycml [OP]1 points2y ago
I am not against telling my partners about my pregnancy and definitely do not want to give birth in the bathroom so I want them to know. Thanks for your input
iwantmysharpieback2 points2y ago
Then it's absolutely whenever you feel up to it. And congratulations by the way!! Babies are some of my favorite people.
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