100% you’re completely valid in how you feel. This is also a personal pet peeve of mine. I would recommend politely telling whoever it is that’s finishing your drinks to please stop doing that. Let them know you’re trying to get faster on bar and you can’t get better if you’re constantly being helped. I like to tell people to let me drown. If I look like i’m drowning, i’m just learning how to swim.

that’s a pet peeve of mine too because when i’m on bar i have a system and certain ways i personally do things and stuff gets all out of order in my head when that happens

Damn, Stephanie Meyer, ready for the next chronicle pleaseeeeeee. Also, I feel. Tell them to stop.

I hate to say this but this so sounds like me. If there’s anything I’ve learned recently it’s that you’re going to get help whether you want/need it or not and yeah it’s annoying when you turn around and your drink is gone and finished but it’s also your team helping you. You get faster by just picking up the next drink and not worrying about the one you didn’t get to finish. I’m learning to accept help and ask when I need it. I used to think it was someone trying to take over my bar. If you really don’t need help just say hey can you actually get me a new bottle of vanilla or more milk or even if like to work on my sequencing.


My intention is to not invalidate your feelings because they are 100% valid and you’re allowed to feel that way and I get it more than you understand.

I HATE WHEN PEOPLE DO THIS. I literally finish my drink and watch them walk over to finish the other one I’m doing. And then I’m just standing there like if you would’ve given me .5 seconds more it would’ve been done