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Starbucks Baristas: The daily grind

Full History - 2021 - 02 - 07 - ID#lf4294
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Starbucks customers are getting worse (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by sailorlily623
I know this has been said multiple times, several different ways but I am so upset. I had a nervous breakdown at work since we’re not allowed to turn mobile orders off anymore and we get a skeleton crew every single closing shift.
I just feel like anything we try to do the customers at my store hate us. Like I’m just so tired of having to enforce basic covid regulations working, being understaffed, but also being busier than ever. I don’t know how to please people anymore. I’m tired of the eye rolls, people arguing with me over every little thing, the attitude. I understand it’s not every single customer but more and more it starts to feel like people are just becoming meaner and meaner. And I’m weekends it’s even worse.
It makes me want to quit. I loved everything about this job at first and the customers we are getting is just making me hate the job more and more every day. It’s horrible but it’s true and it’s just so frustrating because I feel like this violates this “third place” that starbucks seems so hellbent on keeping in place. I just need anything to keep me going at this point because I just want to love the job again.

TL;DR customers are being meaner and more entitled and I am at my wits end and it’s ruined the job for me.
Clements403 32 points 2y ago
Your customers are shit. I worked at Starbucks for a while before going to work at a local roaster and the difference in customers is unbelievable. A Starbucks near my work shut down recently so a lot of their customers started coming to my roaster. Gave me Vietnam flashbacks with how nasty and entitled some of them are. The fact that they’ll come in and order some ridiculous Starbucks drink at a completely different business then act like toddlers when we tell them that we don’t do that is absurd.
kaitlyn1620 31 points 2y ago
I honestly feel this. I used to really enjoy my job and looked forward to going every day. Now I come home every day exhausted and sometimes in tears. I wish people treated us like human
sailorlily623 [OP] 16 points 2y ago
I’m just losing it. Also is there anyway to contact corporate or pcc or something similar to the partner surveys they ask us to fill out over the way we are being treated by customers via starbucks not giving a shit about their employees. I realize it will most likely achieve nothing but I still think it’s worth the try or at least the closure in my mind.
bexbux 21 points 2y ago
if they can release commercials about creamers, they can release a public statement about the treatment of employees and how customers should be more aware. but they don’t want to lose money
skylinegtrr32 8 points 2y ago
I just started a few weeks ago and I can already feel this myself. People are so mean when I’m still basically learning and no better off than they are on how to run the register. I had a person tell me “it’s not that hard to just push buttons” when looking for their stupid ridiculous custom tiktok order...
sailorlily623 [OP] 3 points 2y ago
Yeah I feel you. I’ve been here since last summer and it’s been a rough time ever since. My store in particular is just a living hell. But it does get better at some points I promise and I hope you meet customers that are kind to you because they make everything so much easier
lelaluv 8 points 2y ago
agreed. i feel like a robot who isn’t allowed to have any emotions
cammywams 6 points 2y ago
You aren’t alone in this. I know it’s easier said than done, but just realize that this time is a hard time for everyone. Everyone is frustrated and stressed in their own ways and they just happen to take it out on you. The best thing to do is try to keep your head up and try to be a little beam of sunshine in this dark world. Again, easier said than done and I’m not downplaying your frustration.

On the other hand, you should definitely communicate your frustrations with someone especially if you feel like it’s so bad that you aren’t able to keep up with covid regulations, because that’s so important right now.

Best of luck to you and just try to keep your head up. It will get better and hopefully soon.
sailorlily623 [OP] 3 points 2y ago
Thank you! It’s def difficult rn and I’ll try and keep other people in mind when they react a certain way. It’s very stressful and I’m sure I’ll learn to love the job again I just kinda reached my breaking point the other day.
whitemystery1204 3 points 2y ago
I feel like making it a “third place” is just as much the customers’ responsibility as it is yours. But of course, they don’t give a shit. You are excepted to just roll over, kiss ass, and smile. Sorry, mate. Hope your customers get better and more respectful. My store’s customers are 30% decent, 30% kind, and 40% shit. So I guess I’m winning.
3_point_turn 3 points 2y ago
Honestly though. When I started at my new store I LOVED it. I had an amazing team and we had so many nice regulars who I quickly got attached to and learned their names and drinks by heart. I loved going to work and I loved connecting with all different kinds of people (safely, of course).

But I feel like over recent months, especially in the winter season and through the holidays, people just got....different. Most of the regulars that came in when I first started don’t come in that often anymore, and the few new ones we have aren’t nearly as friendly. My team has changed SO much in the ten months I’ve been at my store, and while mostly everyone is great, there just isn’t the same vibe anymore. We’re constantly short staffed and it feels like it’s a constant battle between what the morning crew does and what the night crew does and doesn’t do. Just yesterday I had to defend the night shift to two morning shifts because they were complaining about how things don’t get done, and I had to try and explain to them (with no success) that between constant mobile orders (that don’t turn off until 30 minutes until we close and come in CONSTANTLY), closing tasks, and customers coming in, it was hard to get all the extra stuff done between just two people. They said the morning shift was far more busy which they were right, it is, but when your pre-closer leaves at 7 or 7:30 and you still have more dishes, more backups, constantly having to stock, mobile orders and cafe orders, with just one barista and one shift, they’re honestly lucky we get the bare minimum done.

Anyways. I’m about to take a leave of absence for mental health reasons and during that time I’m going to start looking for another job. I hate it because I once loved being a barista, but the job is too mentally exhausting for the amount of money I make. I miss the old days when I first started—I miss being able to leave work without feeling stressed out the ass.
sailorlily623 [OP] 1 points 2y ago
I do not blame you. Your store sounds very similar to mine and the SM doesn’t really do much. We’ve made some progress it’s just unbearable at this point. I know I should keep in mind that I don’t know what customers fo through in their day to day life, but they also don’t know what goes on in mine. It’s just really upsetting how ungrateful people are. There is so much finger pointing between morning crew and night crew and it’s stupid. We’re understaffed period. Lol. No one can get anything done and it’s a nightmare unfortunately. I thought about taking a leave of absence too but I’m getting promoted soon so I’m just trying to get my promotion and learn everything I can and then maybe take an LOA
cinnamonmarigold 3 points 2y ago
People get so comfortable with being catered to. Regulars who insist we cut drink carriers in half for them. Regulars who demand 40 packets of honey every day. Venti double shots from hell.

I’m thankful to have a kickass team that we can laugh about these things, but my god, why are people like this?
bingethinker16 2 points 2y ago
I feel this post so much. Between having to remind people to wear a mask a year into a pandemic and all these stupid tiktok drinks that people expect us to know... I'm annoyed most of the time. Plus then not having staff to add insult to injury, it's exhausting.

I'm lucky enough to work with great partners, but jesus management is so out of touch with what we go through.
OhMyKrishna 2 points 2y ago
I’m so sorry. This is so hard. I had a SM who had no clue how to staff the floor or order everything, we were chronically out of everything and short staffed. It was so stressful and frustrating. I learned in my experience when interacting with guests to fake-apologize, have boundaries, and let go of things that are out of my control. “I’m so sorry for the long wait, I would feel the same if I were in your shoes. The reason is bc we are really short staffed/haven’t received enough of XX product/ whatevs the reason is. Please feel free to share that feedback with my SM so they know to have more people on the shift/order more product.”
l0vely_poopface 2 points 2y ago
This sounds like a problem with people (read: education) in general.
[deleted] 3 points 2y ago
It is but how companies treat customers and employees. Some companies coddle immature customers too much and don’t set harsh enough boundaries. So this ends up breeding a more entitled customer base because some of them take their frustrations and struggles out on partners because they know they can get away with it and the company will do nothing about their behavior.

I mean nasty people are a problem for all businesses and are an unfortunate inevitability, some businesses attract more because they have a toxic business model in place.
rio8envy7 1 points 2y ago
I get this. Just remember though covid has hit and taken a toll on everyone. It’s sucks but we don’t know what people are going through. They could be unemployed or lost someone to covid. I understand enforcing rules is tiring. I’m not saying that taking it out on us is ok but I’m just saying we don’t know what happens in other people’s personal lives.

As for being understaffed ask your manager if they can schedule more people. Tell them you’re understaffed and that it’s hard to get closing stuff done when you’re understaffed.
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