iwantmysharpieback 8 points 2y ago
Your safety will be in numbers. If a single call goes through it will be easy to track down. But if 3, 8, 20+ partners all go at the same the time? Way more safety AND there will be more investigation.
Kaygsw16 4 points 2y ago
They will also most likely send your RD out to investigate if there are enough calls, especially as it sounds the allegations are serious enough. You ALL need to be honest with the RD, or whomever they send out. If nothing changes, or there is any sort of retaliation you call pcc again, or your RVP. Also, your RD will be notified of the investigation, regardless of who actually does the investigating, so if there is any retaliation from your DM it will be obvious.
steadyslingin 2 points 2y ago
If you are going to go this route just make sure to have plenty of documentation (date, time, nature of conversation etc). If this person is behaving this way it is best to have specific examples of that behavior to present to PR.