DTO (not me): Hello, welcome to Starbucks! My name is ABC. What's your name? Customer: I F*CKING TOLD YOU YESTERDAY THAT I DONT WANT TO GIVE YOU MY F*CKING NAME!!!(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by designated-grapes
Customer pulls up to window: Are you the one who asked for my f*cking name again??? Me, @ window: *Shakes head* No, sir. But if you keep speaking to me that way, I'm going to walk away from you and refuse service. Customer: ....... Um...How much is the total?
This happened a few weeks ago. Haven't seen him since.
Just don't answer the question or use "Bob." We're trying to do our damn job.
DayKid2222 points2y ago
Dick. His names Dick
allltheangels71 points2y ago
last name: head 😉
D7354844 points2y ago
"Ok Richard, your total will be $$$"
cringeqween1392 points2y ago
With that attitude he's probably banned from another SBUX and thinks we have some mega database of everyone who's banned. Like seriously why are people so against giving their name.
designated-grapes [OP]47 points2y ago
Just have a generic name like Bob or something ready. I don't care if it's your real name or not. Or don't give me your name at all, I don't care. I have plenty of people not give me a name and jump straight to their order. Doesn't bug me. I'm just doing what I'm told to do. lol
ShannyES18 points2y ago
I have a fake name that is nothing like my real name I give out. It is my ‘gives to creepy guy at the bar name’ too. 🤷🏼♀️ do we not all have alter egos?
greenlykethecolor11 points2y ago
I had a guy yesterday use my name (from my tag), I have a pretty feminine name so probably not his. Whatever buddy just want to you get your drink to you but I had an awkward chuckle about it. Any thing to match drink to person who ordered it works for me.
ohnoifuckedupfr6 points2y ago
exactly lol i used to have someone give me a superhero name all the time. like i really don’t care 😭
PingPingPoohole69 points2y ago
Asking for a customer's name during a drive-thru transaction is the PERFECT example of taking this customer connection thing too far. It does not feel genuine or organic. Humans hate that shit and I know that I would feel immediately uncomfortable if that's how I was greeted like this.
That being said, that's no excuse for this customer to behave this way.
designated-grapes [OP]42 points2y ago
Look, we're just doing what we're told to do to get our manager off our backs. Trust me, I dont give a fuck about customer connection scores.
PingPingPoohole29 points2y ago
Oh dude, I know. This is not shade being thrown at you personally at all! Leadership doesn't understand what they're asking of us. And corporate doesn't understand what a genuine customer connection is either. So they tell DMs and SMs to do these asinine thing to raise this imaginary number.
andrewdee07 points2y ago
Agreed,, when working I just want to serve great beverages and make it a fast & efficient process. Not the babying of customers 😐
Stella_202024 points2y ago
Why are you asking for names on dto though?
D7354833 points2y ago
We had to do it to increase our customer connection score and it worked. But we only did it for a week or so.
designated-grapes [OP]27 points2y ago
I was trained to do so when I started a year and a half ago. The Partner on DTO in this incident has been with the company for four years and she said her last manager was a stickler for asking for names on DTO?
I dont know. Maybe it's just my district?
LatterRooster8 points2y ago
If my SM is next to me while I’m at window she will ask me every persons name. I just say say the ones that use their app. It’s honestly so easy to glance at their name and they mostly appreciate it
designated-grapes [OP]10 points2y ago
I always say "Hey, LatterRooster! Did you have any rewards to use today?" When I'm at window and the customer uses the app. That way, I can remind them of rewards if they have any to use and it prevents them from pulling the "I wanted to use my rewards" after I close the order.
Kinda kills two birds with one stone. lol
LatterRooster3 points2y ago
My SM is sooo annoyed when I ask a customer is they wanna cash in any stars today... my response is I appreciate it when someone asks me because with forget!
289partnerofq2 points2y ago
Starbucks recently started a whole policy. Give a name take a name. You say “Hello my names hector, what’s your” you get the idea. At least from what my DM told me.
Stella_20201 points2y ago
We tried that in my district about 1.5 years ago and they stopped doing it within two weeks. People just kept getting mad.
kxnkycxrly18 points2y ago
we had a lady like that and for the longest time I just put her name as “no” cause that’s all she said. but one time I overheard my boss saying her name like he was allowed to know but we weren’t??? And I put her name on the cup and the look on her face of utter shock was great.
Kaywin7 points2y ago
>I overheard my boss saying her name like he was allowed to know but we weren’t???
Honestly, this could well be a thing. Some people get weird about hierarchy.
Mr_SCPF12 points2y ago
The name’s Bond.
thebeancakes3 points2y ago
I'm using this from now on.
A_Will_Ferrell_Cat10 points2y ago
What an ass... though your story reminds me when my old manager was trying to get us to ask for names in DTO. It always feels awkward to ask and was trying out different phrases for a time.
I asked this one guy "and who are these drinks for?"
His response was a confused "uh, for me and my realtor."
Digitalwitness237 points2y ago
I couldn’t understand for the life of me why corporate thought it would be a good idea to require that we ask for names in drive-thru. Absolute nonsense that results in frequent awkward moments or the occasional explosion like from the customer in this story.
juiceyluicy6 points2y ago
I once asked a lady for her name and she goes, “I don’t want to give it to you, why does it matter, I’m the only one in the store?” And I said, “honestly ma’am it’s just part of our job, I have to ask you.” Like do they really not think it’s part of our job? Why else would we ask
ZaftigZephyr2 points2y ago
Lol yeah people be like: damn why are these fricken baristas so interested in me?
vickera3 points2y ago
Just make one up ffs.
My name is R'frothagaro the Terrible.
LindaFromAccounting_2 points2y ago
I never understand why people get weird about names. you can literally make up whatever you want lol not that deep. or you could say "no name" and thats fine too 🤷🏻♀️
designated-grapes [OP]2 points2y ago
Exactly. I won't get offended if give me a weird fake name or you say no. As long as you're not rude or the name you give me isn't rude, I'm good. lol
Kaywin2 points2y ago
I don't understand asking for people's names at the drive thru. Is it a shorthand for verifying the person in front of you has the corresponding order? I was not trained to ask for people's names at DT and it seems like a waste of time to me given the pressure to crank so many people out the door at once. When I was a barista I would confirm a person's drinks at the window and only ask the name at DTO if they tell me it's a mobile order.
designated-grapes [OP]2 points2y ago
It's probably for customer connections but I just do it so I don't get talked to by my manager. 🤷♀️
golden_pinky2 points2y ago
That is a beautiful response. I want to say this to someone one day
plktm1 points2y ago
One time I asked for a name and he gave me a swear word in a foreign language (jokes on you idiot, I’m a polyglot). I just said ok and didn’t write it in LOL
VrginMobile1 points2y ago
It gets me in a bind when a customer doesn't want to give me a name a few times in a row especially when they order similar things.
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