Wow. I wouldve loved to see his face when you said that to him. I bet he was confused that you weren’t submissive. I love when people get mad about things we have no control over like seasonal drinks. Oh you’re mad there’s a shortage Karen? I dont give a shit. Tell me what you want so we can make it and get the fuck out of my face.

I’m sorry :( I know not every starbucks is created equal. Like I said I have a very supportive team, and I’m really lucky they’re understanding..

Seriously. I’ve talked to my store manager already about my AM and BPD and she told me her grandma was similar, and that she understands. She’s told me stories about her just leaving because it got to be too much for her during shifts. I’m so blessed to have managers who are human and compassionate. Not some micro-managing, robo-cop, business degree having ass loser, as a manager. No one likes to have shitty managers, you need to support your team esp when it comes to things like being disrespected by customers. I would rather get fired then ever have someone make me feel like I’m their bitch. ONE TIME I was solo on DTR/DTO and as I’m taking an order, the bitch at the window saw her drink and was calling for my attention. She was like “Excuse me! Is that my drink?” And I was in disbelief that she SEES I’m busy taking an order, but thinks she’s to important that I have to stop what I’m doing to answer a dumb ass question. So I was like “yeah.” And she’s like “can I get it?” Lmaoooooo

I took my time taking the next customers order, and the next order AND the next order before I even got to the window to give her her drink. 😂

Yeah I’m petty.

I’m sorry :( you know anytime I’ve ever had an issue with a drink or food Item that I’ve ordered, I politely mention it. Just because mistakes happen, it’s no ones fault. People can’t grasp that concept.

This is my exact attitude lol. <3 Im the nicest when customers are nice, but when they’re mean I’m even more mean but in a passive way of course. I love when I’m on bar and obviously I’m busy af and people decide thats the perfect time to ask me a question. The worst is when people are watching you make their drinks and they’re telling you what to do like it’s subway. LUCKILY I’ve never been told what to do but I’ve seen it happen to my coworkers and I’m like “damn, y’all are too nice.” Lol I would literally ignore them, or ask them if they wanna make the drink themself. You’re at starbucks bitch.

Also, I'm not that way at Starbucks yet (want to be established first) but at my old retail job I was DEFINITELY the one who was like "make me cry, I *dare* you". It was always funny cuz it was in a college town so we always had a college group of employees so I'd legitimately nudge 6+ ft male 18 year old employees out of my way who were being yelled at by customers and take over 😂 it was hilarious according to my old manager seeing a 5'4" female employee suddenly yeet herself in between an irate customer and a new (usually taller than me) new employee. 🤣

My store mostly has one person on DTO/DTR unless it’s super busy, and it can get quite hectic and overwhelming esp for a green bean. People act like we’re their slaves so we should be degraded. I’m sorry Karen, I don’t go into your miserable office job and give you a hard time, hop off my nuts and drink your coffee bitch. I totally feel that in making yourself established lol, you can’t start off anywhere being like “fuck you,” unless you just don’t give one lol 😂