It’s my job to be nice to you. I am NOT flirting.(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by gay_robots
Listen man, my store has a customer connections score of a whopping 41%. We are running on pretty much all new hires and only 3-4 people with actual experience, and of those only 2ish of us are confident in starting up conversations with the customers. So to the creepy men who come up to me on the daily trying to get my number, call me pet names, or invite me home after closing, you can fuck right off. I’m smiling at you and asking about your day and complementing you in some way because *that is part of my job*, not because I want to get with your crusty ass. Every single human who comes through the line is getting the exact same treatment as you, so idk why you think you’re special. Especially as a small afab person who works the closing shift, I’m tired of looking over my shoulder while I walk back to my car after the sun has gone down.
Oh, and a special message to the pimp who tried to offer me a job last night, fuck you specifically.
hellanordi32 points2y ago
I'll never forget this one Guy: can you put light lemonade in it Me: yeah of course man! *Makes the drink and hand it out and ask if it's okay* Guy: why? did you spit in it? Me: what? No, is the amount of lemonade okay.... Guy: oh yeah it's fine but would be better if you spit in it
what goes through someone’s mind when they think something like this is okay to say 😭😭
Balisong_Witch10 points2y ago
Ugh fuck crusty cishet men, hope you can stay safe :/
birdie37569 points2y ago
I had a man ask for extra caramel drizzle on his macchiato which of course I did (before this stupid caramel shortage). When I handed his drink he said "Oh you're too good to me." A little creepy but nothing insane. What did it for me was when I walked away and he watched me and said "Oooh daddy likes." 🙃🙃🙃
N3IIEN9 points2y ago
Have your closing partner walk with you to your car. Are you carrying any mace?
imathrowayslc8 points2y ago
I try to have the whole shift walk out together at close. We even are at a mall with a lighted parking structure and security, but still.
lemonlimelite6 points2y ago
my stores customer connection is only at like 35 lol— but this is one reason i hate how much they push it! if i don’t want to flirt with old men don’t make me
gay_robots [OP]3 points2y ago
It’s not even flirting, they just feel entitled to women’s niceties
rio8envy72 points2y ago
Tell your shift or SM if you’re feeling uncomfortable and write a report. That’s not ok. You shouldn’t be afraid to walk to your car. See if another closer will walk with you.
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