theLegendairy1 2 points 2y ago
First of all, I want to commend you for wanting to own up. I understand that there's no malice behind your actions, you just didn't know better, that's why I was spelling out how it looks to the SMs. I don't know if it's too late for this situation, but it's a really good trait that you're willing to admit when you're wrong and how to do better.
The transfer process is one of those formal things that you have to go through certain steps, but they don't teach you about it until you have to actually go through it. Unfortunately, just because you want to transfer, it's not guaranteed. That's a big reason why you should have looped your current manager in as soon as you were sure you wanted to transfer - he could have told you about the basic process, and gotten the paperwork started, since he HAS to fill out paperwork as your manager because you are currently tied to his store and his staff, and that paperwork ensures you can get paid at your new store. Also, you have to convince your new store you'd be a good fit with their team. Just because that location would be ideal for you to work at does not guarantee you will be able to transfer there. When you found that store, they have A spot they can fill, but it doesn't automatically go to you.
He could also tell you no, he doesn't want to transfer you, for whatever reasons, but you pre-emptively told the other SM that you already got the green light. That's why that quick lie is causing you all this trouble. Obviously a face-to-face convo is best, but you could have left him a note asking for him to make time for you to talk about something important, or a similar text. Or you could have just written him a note as simple as saying "hey SM, I want to transfer - what do I need to do?"
I think at this point though, you need to have a face-to-face discussion with your SM to clear things up, so ask if he can stay later or whatever to make time for you, or come in a little earlier at the end of his shift. And be honest. Explain that you were really clueless about the whole transfer process, that your commute is an issue and that's why you started looking, that you didn't even realize that you should have communicated with him first but you realize your mistake now and you hope he can please, please still help you transfer. The way you went about things initially drastically lowered your chance of success. By now, the new SM has reached out to your current SM to ask about you as an potential employee, so the sooner you address this with your current SM, the less painful it will be. You need to salvage your reputation with your manager, basically. Good luck, zambiers.