I am the same. By the time I get home, my brain is like no thank you.
clumsycalico37 points2y ago
Yep. It’s a difficult job and takes a lot out of you. That’s the number 1 reason I want to find a job in my field soon, there’s no reason to be this worn out all the time over coffee. I don’t have the energy for the things I want to do or are important because I’m always exhausted, and I haven’t even been getting scheduled full time in a while
n2bxl13 points2y ago
I’m in this exact same position right now. My school, social life, and home duties are all suffering
But you best bet I still be showing up to my shift with a force smile :)
Mimiagical21 points2y ago
Yup. I have to sit and play on my phone for like an hour to wind down from work before I can do anything. Including sleeping. And the physical exhaustion once I finally stand up is a whole nother level.
Few_Grapefruit_642111 points2y ago
Okay so I see a lot of people saying the exercise and other healthy habits help them to overcome their fatigue, and that’s genuinely really helpful for some people, but don’t feel bad if you can’t bring yourself to do those things. Sometimes they’re just not possible, especially for ppl with mental illness and/or physical disabilities. Do what you can to take care of yourself first, the rest can come after
StellaLuxx11 points2y ago
I used to have dreams about work so I felt like I never left. They went away after a while but it probably doesn't hurt to mention it if you're going to the doctor anyway. I also find doing something to wind down really helped before falling asleep.
gay_robots8 points2y ago
I feel the same way. It’s a big reason I’m quitting because my store keeps scheduling me on days that I have school, despite the fact that I’ve asked for those two days off. Even though I don’t have school all day and can theoretically work a shift and still have time to go to class, I come home so exhausted that it impacts my performance. After the last shift I worked on an exam day and seeing that midterm grade, I put in my two weeks
august4017 points2y ago
yup just got off and i've been laying on the couch for 3 hours
fantasmicck6 points2y ago
I literally have to take a 2 hour nap when I get home no matter what
[deleted] [OP]6 points2y ago
Check your sleep, diet and exercise. Are you sedentary outside of work? Do you eat vitamins? Do you sleep 7+ hours? Usually, for me, I get off an 8 hour shift, drink a spinach/orange juice shake, and go for a 10-20 minute walk. Maybe some push ups. From there, I’m loosened up and ready to start my other important shit for the day. You’d think exercise takes energy, but it actually gives you *a lot* of it. I usually just remind myself that there are millions of people out there doing even *more* draining work, for even longer work weeks… so I have no excuses. But yeah, diet/exercise/sleep makes a major difference in stamina.
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catsandmermaids295 points2y ago
Yup!!! I’ve been a partner for over a decade(I’m a 167) and I’m still exhausted after every shift
Seaweedgreedy7 points2y ago
Over a DECADE? Howwww I’ve been there a month and a half and I feel like I’m not going to last a fricken year
HeartsandPins1 points2y ago
Off and on for 10 years 165 here! Since I was 16. It takes a lot out of you.
Bubblebutt2172 points2y ago
Do you keep the same number when you leave and come back?
HeartsandPins1 points2y ago
Yep you do!
interyx1 points2y ago
Yep. Your number is your number. I used to work with a lady who quit for quite a while and came back and she had 328xxx. Six numbers.
kortette3 points2y ago
My problem was that I took my job too seriously. Come in in the morning, do your best, go home, and forget about it.
Also, you’re stronger and more resilient than you think. People are able to do manual labor full time and come home and raise their kids. It’s a mental switch.
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NervosaNervous3 points2y ago
I’ve started taking a short 10-15 minute walk after I get off (if I get off early enough that is). It helps me clear my mind.
Varinity3 points2y ago
Since I started eating better and working out after work I’ve felt little to no fatigue when I’m off, even if I open. It’s really strange but after walking around 4+ miles a day at work a workout helps keep me going, I just did my 14th shift in a row and I’m off tomorrow, I could absolutely keep going but
bigghostb00ty3 points2y ago
I second this. Eating healthy and exercising are REALLY important. I try to watch my sugar and caffeine at work, getting lower sugar drinks and limiting myself to one or two coffee beverages (otherwise I just drink passion tea or water or an occasional green tea). I’ve been working overnights for over a year and I’m also a full time student and it’s been very hard, but making those changes recently (biking more to/from work, eating well) have made a huge difference in my mental health.
Varinity2 points2y ago
Absolutely, couldn’t agree more! I’ve been having shaken espressos with limited pumps of any flavoring and eating a lot of the protein boxes on my breaks too, just generally trying to have less sugar and eating even a little bit better helps a ton and the more I commit to it the better I feel!
acelestialgay2 points2y ago
I left almost a month ago and I can still barely walk some days from the stress my body was under. I still have stress dreams about not getting people through drive fast enough, and having things thrown at me because it wasn’t made right, or being yelled at beck see someone mobile ordered wrong.
the-OG-darkshrreder1 points2y ago
Yep, whenever i work earlier than 2pm i have to kinda just stare at a wall for a hour. Maybe cry. Then take a nap. Then I’m good.
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jklmnopedy1 points2y ago
Yes, 100%. That's why I had to put a hard boundary up of 25 hours/wk while I take ASU online classes. Otherwise, you just get burned out. But except for maybe low vitamin levels, Starbucks causing this is completely normal, unfortunately. I think a lot of us are hardworkers who care about meeting goals, doing a "good" job, and being there for our coworkers, so our physical and mental stress activates to meet the demands of the job. This was not good for my health, and I'm just going to say it's not really good for anyone's. Something that is helping me is breathing thru the demanding chaos, paired w a mantra like, "It's only coffee, I'm not paid enough for this, it's not worth my health." This is harder to do than it should be, but that little bit of mindfulness does help. My professor taught us recently that physiology affects psychology affects physiology. Your tense body then tenses up your mind, and BOTH kinds of stress are exhausting.
TL;DR - Don't work harder than your wage. You deserve peace of mind. ❤
I hope this helps!
bitter-barista1 points2y ago
Yes. I am a bowl of noodles after a 7 or 8hr shift...idk how much more I got in me.
the1noir1 points2y ago
I think you need to cut back on the caffeine tbh.
[deleted] [OP]1 points2y ago
Yeah, I worked at one of the busiest locations in our district. I ended up having to quit and leave to focus on my Masters program. I kept coming home and having no energy to do my classwork.
At one point it got so bad I was sent home with aches so bad I could hardly stand and a fever over 100. After I slept for an entire day and a half, I was fine. I literally had a fever from exhaustion.
You’re not at all alone - and I’m so sorry you’re so tired and I hope you feel rested soon.
HeartsandPins1 points2y ago
I've been with Starbucks off and on for 10 years, 165, and honestly taking care of my body is what I find the best. Extra water, no over sugary drinks (I know it's tempting), some stretches or light work out. Sleep is your best friend but yea there are times where I come home and I don't even have the energy to get out of my work clothes.
martinifather1 points2y ago
immediately when I clock out my hands are usually shaking for a while. I always feel so taken out at the end of the day. Sometimes when I wake up in the morning I feel like I’m in the middle of a rush and have drinks to make
TWKern011 points2y ago
Samesies and I’m on meds to fight Post-COVID fatigue and fog. Literally on a med used to treat narcolepsy.
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krym32zamoon1 points2y ago
I don't remember having dreams about work but I've been told I sleep talk and sleep motion about work things all the time. So that's pretty horrifying to know I never escape that place 🙃
godlord14881 points2y ago
Work retail 10 to 3 or 3 to 8 30.manage to workout 6am to 9 40am jet to work then swim after work for 1 hr. Or a do gym and swim before work if I get a lucky pm shift. 10 to 3 is asstarded bc i always catch shit weather. Its all sunny till i get out of work:"(and I'mmiserable. anyone else wish their store HAD NO WINDOWS? I DO.
mrbubblegxm1 points2y ago
I’m the exact same way! I’m still pumped up after work and I usually hate cooking but I’ll force myself to cook and pretend it’s for customers and everything goes by 10x faster,
juju4830 points2y ago
So I have a coworker like this. They have an appointment to get tested, but all signs are pointing to them possibly being on the autism spectrum. Just something to consider
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