New barista/conflicting ideas 😏(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by symebe
So it’s officially the end of my second week, working at Starbucks. Everything’s good so far besides the fact that I’m literally in love w my coworker 🌚. It’s one of those crushes you can’t get rid of.... I literally get butterflies 😭 I just want to know why meeeeeee.. I’m suffering here 😒
Ok_Royal_45285 points1y ago
Should you two become partners in a relationship, I advise one of you to switch day parts [one works AM & one works PM]
Physical_Wedding_5161 points1y ago
wait why? i genuinely don’t know
potatopoisoning3 points1y ago
Because that way no one can say either one of you are showing “favoritism” on shifts. If you don’t work together there’s no chance for that kind of accusation in the first place.
[deleted]2 points1y ago
I've been avoiding crushes for the life of me at my work place. Wait my crushes came in as a costumer me hides behind the pos. Forgets my co workers are beside me being amused by this interaction. Halp
[deleted]2 points1y ago
If he comes during my next shifts I am be forced to talk to him either way and I don't mind.
symebe [OP]2 points1y ago
My crush works during the evening so I’m sad I don’t see him, but whenever I think about him he pops up in the drive thru idkkk😭
franglaisedbeignet2 points1y ago
A crush will last about 4 months. But, I feel you!!
symebe [OP]2 points1y ago
Oh guys I’m not gonna act on it, I refuse to be one of those who get distracted :) just sharing my feelings that’s all. Thanks for the advice though, we work different shifts, him night me morning
baristasgtpepper2 points1y ago
Literally the most important thing if you guys become romantically involved is to let your SM know. Otherwise you both would be at risk for losing your jobs if people decided to take dislike with certain behaviors and blame it in favoritism. At my store people end up dating all the time but our SM wants to know so that favoritism can’t be used as a way to assess partner conflicts. I was told there was a rule the SSVs couldn’t date others who weren’t also SSVs due to partner conflicts but idk for sure.
potatopoisoning2 points1y ago
So here’s my perspective. I’m an SSV who met my current long term partner at Starbucks (I was not an SSV when we started dating, the promotion came after) and this is what my SM told me:
It’s not a problem as long as you keep your relationship reasonably outside of work. It doesn’t have to be a total secret that’s never spoken of, but be tactful and don’t display it on the floor. After I was promoted we moved to opposite shifts (AM/PM), though we occasionally work together. The *better* option (in the case that you’re on different levels) is to work at different stores. We didn’t because it would require a transfer and we’re moving soon and will be going to different stores in our new state anyway, but I digress.
Codyskank1 points1y ago
I’m fairly certain there is no rule against it. Kinda just depends on your coworkers (managers especially) how that could go.
NervosaNervous3 points1y ago
I’d also say it depends on your roles as well. If they’re an SSV, that can get really complicated.
Codyskank1 points1y ago
Yeah of course, there are rules against different roles dating.
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