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Starbucks Baristas: The daily grind

Full History - 2021 - 08 - 18 - ID#p759tq
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Bullying (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by [deleted]
Won’t add to much context, need to avoid identification.
I’m a returning barista, little over a year of experience at the bucks.
I’ve had jobs where I was the person in charge, jobs where I’ve been the lowest on the totem pole, jobs where I’ve worked hard for little.
I value commitment and motivation above all else, I take the time to make sure both of those values are present in my work, above all else I try my best to have fun and to be inclusive.
Today I worked a shift in drive through order. It was the first time in years that I had done this. I tried my best to be fast, consistent and accessible to customers and partners alike. Sure my times were down and my first half hour was a little rough but I got into my groove and really connected and made customers have a great experience even if they did wait 3 or 4 mins. As this is going on another barista (whose had weird behavior toward me already) begins to watch my actions way to closely. She tells me to listen better and to take the orders as I hand out change and to just be more on it, I agree with this and completely focus on being one hundred percent into the orders. The problem arose when my drive thru support basically vanished and I kept up on drive. I made two mistakes as a result of my overwhelmed position at drive. 1) I handed off the wrong beverage and customer came back through drive (I apologized, customer was very sweet and kind) 2) I put in one order wrong. These two mistakes warranted some bullying from this barista. She began to tell me how it was my fault and joked around with the others on shift and just made sarcastic remarks about my performance and me being new. Saying something to the effect of, “well I guess I’ll just make mistakes but don’t worry I’m new”
Im in my twenties, im almost 200 pounds and I have a beard as well as a small family im trying to support. I do not make light of peoples mistakes or errors, I do my best to support them after something happens. I feel ashamed of myself, I feel ashamed of my coworker and I feel that I have to address this baristas behavior. Not looking for empathy or sympathy or your criticism. Looking for what I should do next. Im assuming I should talk to my manager first, and possibly talk to the barista whose been treating me so off.
nevviah 9 points 1y ago
honestly in this situation if you feel comfortable confronting the barista you should and tell her hey I really don’t like the comments you made yesterday I’m doing my best and trying to keep up etc if they continue to disrespect you I’d tell your SM that you’ve tried to address the situation and it hasn’t improved the issue then I feel like it’d be completely in the SM’s hands to have a private convo about it
[deleted] [OP] 7 points 1y ago
Hundred percent feel comfortable telling her calmly not to treat me in a way that makes me feel awkward. At the same time, I’ve never really had to deal with this. Maybe to some extent I have but I’ve never like actually felt like oh man talk to partner resources about it. Going to go in early in the morning tomorrow to bend my managers ear about the situation. Thanks for the comment.
- a stressed out dude
nevviah 2 points 1y ago
I just got out of a similar situation, SM didn’t really help out and it never got resolved she just ended up transferring. I hope things get better over there!
[deleted] [OP] 3 points 1y ago
Thanks! I’m a very forward person and I would hate to have to say something to her on the floor that would shut her down so hard but if that’s how it’ll escalate, then that’s the way I’ll have to deal with it. Would prefer to just speak with her privately tho. Thanks for sharing and the support!
-beam-me-up- 4 points 1y ago
I've seen veteran baristas of 5 years still make mistakes in drive. It's not your fault. That coworker just needs to get her head out of her ass
FfierceLaw 3 points 1y ago
Oh wow, is there one like that in every store? I'd like to know how this comes out for you. I don't share shifts with our one partner who behaves this way but that could change. I'm guessing that your SM already knows how she is
[deleted] [OP] 3 points 1y ago
I didn’t know you could request to not be scheduled with a certain partner. I may look into that, honestly I’m only getting part time anyways so I’d be fine with picking another 20 hrs somewhere else. Appreciate the comment, my experience today really dragged me down.
FfierceLaw 3 points 1y ago
I didn’t request it, it’s just by luck, we’re just in different blocks. And now I’m 8 months in and have had small discussions about her with other partners I trust. I learned that she is renowned and it’s not just me. But when I was more new, I was trying hard and felt less secure so she bothered me more. I haven’t gone to SM but l’m pretty sure he knows. However, I wouldn’t discourage you from speaking to SM

If you were doing solo DTR/DTO, that is pretty advanced. I’m pretty impressed, not many in my store do that. I’ll do it for perhaps 3 transactions and then someone comes to handle DTR (window.) Edit: let us know how it’s going. I predict she’ll do this as long as your new/insecure but if you stay long enough to get your feet under you, she’ll stop. I don’t think these people even know why they do what they do
[deleted] [OP] 2 points 1y ago
It depends on the store. I am very lucky with my coworkers on that end will never do anything on that extreme. No matter how many mistakes I do as green bean.
[deleted] [OP] 2 points 1y ago
Never push yourself to be to fast because you don't want injuries. I had to do this myself because I was on the verge of crying after work I really wanna be fast like the others go hang out with them and the barista certification. Reddit comfort me.

My other coworks were like your still new. Lol. Green beans never get let go unless they can't really do anything. Its not even the shifts decision.
MoonCobbler 1 points 1y ago
You can't talk to these people face to face. These people have one thing going for them and it's treating others bad. You talk to them it's going to make it worst.

The best option is to leave for a better job. Or go to a better store.
[deleted] [OP] 1 points 1y ago
Update: Have talked to two different shifts and numerous baristas. Person is quite a bully and has received write ups. My experience was not uncommon, I plan on actually following up with my manager now and I am quite happy I wrote this down and posted it. Now I have the dates and an outline of events. Hope to god something gets done about it and I don’t plan on letting any disrespect come at me ever again.
[deleted] [OP] 1 points 1y ago
Also, just want to add that I really appreciate the comments I got and it helped me come to terms with the situation and do something. Thank you guys
[deleted] [OP] 1 points 1y ago
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