Do you think Starbucks baristas are too nice?(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by garbanzone
I’ve seen baristas get yelled at, talked down to, and treated like garbage. By assholes all across the world. I can only reason that these assholes act this way because they are emboldened by every single instance where they have acted like torrential cunts and gotten exactly what they wanted.
If Starbucks baristas were meaner, I think it would make everybody who deserves to be happier, happier. And all the horrible customers would either leave, or be nicer.
What do you think? Would a “No soup for you!” approach work? Should corporate require meanness coaching to keep shitty customers in line?
KobraKiddisalive189 points1y ago
Corporate would never go this route unfortunately. They’re very much of the mindset that the baristas are the dirt under customers shoes and that’s why they’re constantly losing people.
garbanzone [OP]83 points1y ago
I feel like Starbucks is reaching chipotle level of turnover, and its bad for everybody. Soulless corporations really minimize the impact that work environment has on mental health.
KobraKiddisalive40 points1y ago
Exactly! Starbucks used to be good and then something changed when they decided to go basically full steam for no more cafes and that spiritually killed the business. Most of my regulars stopped coming in when we closed the cafe for covid, and we haven’t been able to reopen it because corporate said that reopening our cafe “wasn’t worth the money it would take”. So we are strictly drive thru still. It’s insane to deal with and my team is so stressed out I have people leaving left and right and I can’t be mad about it, they deserve better than what they’re getting right now.
Tvdrone1635 points1y ago
That something is named Kevin Johnson.
GinaMohundro5 points1y ago
This.
noir_fae9 points1y ago
i definitely agree with this ! i worked for starbucks 2015/2016 and then came back in 2019 . There’s a total shift in the mindset and it makes me so sad . especially post covid 🥺. tbh i hold onto the few regulars that come into my current drive through store as my moments of joy .
slamy42052 points1y ago
Unfortunately thats a big thing the SB's culty lifestyle is meant to enforce. If we seem happy, and we try to recruit others into this great new gig, then SB gets good press. You hear a LOT about how its supposedly "one of the best fastfood/retail" places to work, partly because a lot of us have been brainwashed. Very effective PR, on top of their outstanding branding team. We forget how much better most jobs are, and get suckered in for the long term- fully believing this is the best job we can get (and hey, if you work just a little bit harder you could get promoted to SM! Pay raise of a few bucks, less time on your feet, and why would you leave then?)
noir_fae14 points1y ago
i will say the school program through ASU is a huge win if you have the discipline to do school online . Though i do agree for a lot of employees it’s not worth their time . get certified in analytics instead , you don’t need a BA and you do basic work from home.
RareGull8 points1y ago
This is why I’m staying at Starbucks, Amazon actually offers a better scholarship programme, but I would much rather be at Starbucks than Amazon. The people I know that work there always say it’s not worth it
Baristajf4 points1y ago
Target pays 15$ an hour and pays for school… Walmart about 15 as well and pays for school…. Just doesn’t seem worth it to be way underpaid and way overworked… tips aren’t that good and I can’t eat a pound of coffee… this is not saying that I wouldn’t work 4 hours in the mornings a few days a week for free coffee and a food mark out if I was nannying full time but I make nearly as much as a corp store manager and have half the fucking headache working as a TL at Starbucks in Target…
RareGull1 points1y ago
I don’t know about Target, but I know with Walmart it has to be specific to business and that will advance your career there
slamy4201 points1y ago
Agreed. Also worth mentioning- how many of us are forgoing the schooling opportunities _because_ of the work? Cant say I have the energy to work out much anymore, let alone jump through the hoops necessary to _potentially_ gain a scholarship. Im not a teenager anymore, I cant work while schooling fueled by sheer willpower like I used to.
Covid is just the cherry
garbanzone [OP]11 points1y ago
Very interesting take, I agree. It seems easier to just treat employees better than run this psy-ops thing they’ve got going into brainwashing people into *thinking* they treat their employees better.
slamy4201 points1y ago
To be fair its been effective. Everyone forgot about the Guatemala blend fiasco almost immediately.
sofso33 points1y ago
i’m tired of making the moment right i just wanna go apeshit
Tlw913 points1y ago
Same
Jessicap140030 points1y ago
Lol youve def never seen me on bar
garbanzone [OP]14 points1y ago
But I would love to! I need more baristas who stand up for themselves!
Jessicap140013 points1y ago
100%!! Starbucks heavily encourages this culture of entitlement and then throws their baristas to the wolves.
rlblakey1718 points1y ago
I think it's because Starbucks supplements my full-time job so I'm not as worried, but I don't put up with anyone's bs. I'll be friendly but if I have a customer talk to either me or any of my partners a certain way, I don't stand for that ish. We're people, too
garbanzone [OP]8 points1y ago
This is good to hear! Hopefully others see you as an example on how to deal with horrible customers.
GuySmileyIncognito16 points1y ago
Starbucks has shown time and time again that they will always side with the customer on almost every instance so this is what happens. Everyone in corporate is completely blind to the actual ongoings of what the stores are like and continue to act like the turnover rate isn't completely untenable right now and that most stores cannot function and are routinely closing early or not opening at all. It's a very bad company and after being there for over fifteen years, I have three shifts total left and it feels amazing.
jewels310014 points1y ago
I was severely harassed by a customer a couple days ago. She got all up in my personal space with her phone snapping photos of me and verbally harassing me. All because her Frappuccino with no whip had 1/4 inch of room. I offered to remake it but she wasn’t having it. She made me cry and I connected with my store manager about it and she said “well you can’t blame her because she must have been having a bad day. AND you didn’t make the moment right with great customer connections because you offered to remake it instead of remaking it without asking her.” I was speechless. I’m so tired of working for a company that blames us for being abused and harassed and rewards the customers with free drinks when they do it.
IcyColdBrew1 points1y ago
Your manager sucks. Corporate empathy level.
RareGull12 points1y ago
Hi, Shift Supervisor (SSV) here!
We have a thing called the LATTE method, the LATT is all customer dick sucking, the E is “Explain why there was a problem” but in reality it should just be LATT because if I go to an angry customer and explain “oh your drink was 10 drinks behind others in the queue”, or “it appears there’s 8 modifications to your drink, it takes time for our baristas to read it all and make sure they are understanding what you want so that you are satisfied with your drink” I will promptly get a call or text from my manager scolding me for following the E should they find out.
lordthangsy12 points1y ago
As a partner of 3 years going on 4. I don’t take anyone’s shit anymore. I come do my job (SSV) and do my best to lead by example. Whether it’s baristas, other SSV, even leadership, as well as customers. I’m going to reciprocate the energy you give me, I’ve been a walking mat my whole life and a person can only take so much of their kindness being taken advantage of without it taking a toll on their mental health. But there’s an art to it, you gotta extend the kindness and love but when you sense people are trying to take an advantage of it you have to set boundaries and be stern and direct.
For example in the middle of peak, I had my play deployed and baristas in their assigned positions and if you follow the play everything usually runs smooth, but I had both my pos partners grabbing brewed coffee for customers and this customer with a list was acting pretty entitled we couldn’t take her order right away and I could tell she was very frustrated and was making a gesture with her hands posturing us to hurry, understandably so, she could’ve been running late for something, however that’s why there’s mobile orders and a million other Starbucks, so I calmly and sternly looked at her and smiled through my mask and said, “we’ll be right with you”.
jsdod4 points1y ago
You had us in the first 99%
sirensthigh11 points1y ago
unfortunately it’s within policy to literally be too nice. Our policy enables people to be shitty and get rewarded for it. However I’ve become militantly obedient in the sense that I very strictly follow the rules when dealing with asshole customers so I can give them as little as possible.
cringeqween1311 points1y ago
Because we'd get fired if we defended ourselves
_abbycadabby_8 points1y ago
Because "these assholes" get apologies, refunds, and recovery cards from store managers if baristas try to stand up for themselves. Depending on what was said (and who overheard it lol) we can even get written up for loss of composure. Taking customer abuse is part of our job description.
spicytappinnugget7 points1y ago
Gonna start saying “no soup for you!” to assholes from now on lmao
garbanzone [OP]1 points1y ago
Yessss lmao! I need this in my life!
fionalemon6 points1y ago
i refused service to someone today for being disrespectful lol. told him if we're gonna treat you with respect, then you have to treat us with respect- if you can't do that, we won't serve you. luckily i have an amazing SM who i know will back me up should he call to complain (i gave him her business card after he refused to leave the window and told him to talk to her if he has an issue because im not gonna argue with him). i dont know why but people have been crazy since launch and im not gonna let anyone walk all over my baristas eta: i think a lot of partners forget 3rd place goes both ways!!!
mhgl4 points1y ago
I love my baristas but I wouldn’t say they’re overly nice. We sometimes have entire transactions with no words other than, “straws today?”.
It seems like the customer service side of Starbucks me has went way downhill since the pandemic started.
I just assumed everyone is tired and worn down like I am.
CumCough4 points1y ago
You're right, we are too nice. Partners can't do much about it. It is literally in our training to smother customers with attention and pleasant greetings.
If you want to help as a customer, say something. If there's a customer yelling at a poor barista, feel free to address it because we sure as hell can't.
That goes for everything from impatient customers berating the staff to the middle-aged man assaulting the female baristas with "funny and harmless" jokes.
Assiqtaq3 points1y ago
No. And I'll tell you why.
When you are being yelled at, talked down to, or otherwise treated rudely the BEST response you can ever have (not just on the job, really everywhere) is to be as scrupulously polite as you can be. Be a very polite brick wall if you need to. Or a polite message taker. Or a polite whatever it is you need to be in the moment. Strict on point politeness. You can't be held accountable for rudeness in doing what you need to be doing, and bonus points for all the people you will be driving nuts without them having a single thing they can accuse you of.
Also a lot of you guys need to let go the idea of having any responsibility towards SB's bottom line. I mean, I will stop someone from stealing, if I see them and a stern "what do you think you're doing" will stop them. I will not put myself in the way of someone that wants what the store has, though. If someone argues about a drink past what I want to deal with, they get the manager or the number to call back later, or the number to corporate. They aren't paying me enough to put myself out for them one iota more than the baseline. I am not security. I do not get a bonus for sales (managers often do.) They pay me to make drinks and make nice, and that is it. You will not feel so stressed, I promise you, once you realize that screaming customer has just become not your problem anymore. That is your manager's problem now. Let it be.
DaybreakNightfall3 points1y ago
Lolol talk to us off corporate's clock and you'll see the truth.
spacespecterr3 points1y ago
100%, yes. it would never happen, but i think it would greatly benefit us as people AND as an establishment to take a harsher approach with the asshole clientele.
instead, they’re going to sink this ship all the way under by letting people treat us like shit until none of us are willing to take it anymore. it already seems to be reaching that breaking point.
s1ythe3 points1y ago
Fiat corporate coffee. It’s no wonder they expect baristas to continually debase themselves.
Necessary_Low9392 points1y ago
This only started because they want to get a free drink. Some people would literally just start shit for a recovery card
lewabwee2 points1y ago
Yeah I mean there have definitely been customers who suck and make it a horrible experience for everyone else. If we had a point where we could draw a line in the sand and not serve one person above all the others it would lead to an overall better customer service experience.
One of my stores had some asshole customer who got a green tea frapp. She would always ask for it to be remade several times before finally deciding that one of the remakes was good enough. She could never ever tell us though what made it better and nobody could get it right on the first try. Sometimes she’d come in through drive thru and hold up the line. I don’t think we should have ever remade her drink. It’s never right anyways. I think she hated it every time and just decided to stop whining at some point.
rosebudftw2 points1y ago
If I had it my way I would’ve beat the shit out of like 10 people a day
garbanzone [OP]1 points1y ago
I’d pay to watch that
Tlw912 points1y ago
Honestly as a past employee of Starbucks and Tarbucks, there's a point where you just snap. Idk maybe my temper is what drove me away from the job. Towards the end of my being there I just felt so much anger and very burnt out with being there, I wanted so bad to just fucking yell at someone who gave me a hard time but deep down I knew it wasn't the right thing to do.
Mysterious-Dig-34141 points1y ago
The rude customers will always be that way regardless of how I react. I go with my gut and dish out the same attitude I get now
Several-Government821 points1y ago
Honestly when I witness my coworkers being a bit sharp with a rude customer it makes me so uncomfortable because you never know how much it will escalate. At the end of the day it is a customer service job and although I feel like shit I smile and say “of course I will remake this with one less ice cube” I signed up knowing it was a customer servicing but hoping to be out soon lol I want my sanity back!
rterrebo1 points1y ago
Oh trust me, if you were what some of my coworkers and I said behind the bar, you would laugh your head off.
But again, the golden rule still applies.
TYVM1431 points1y ago
I was not mentally able to work in that space. Immature due to having a terrible attitude towards rude customers. To be happy working there I think u have to be super mentally stable
Baristajf1 points1y ago
DM told me I had to assume the best after a customer walked out with an $60+ dollar order and called Starbucks and told them they spent 24$… on 7 drinks and 4 pastries
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