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Starbucks Baristas: The daily grind

Full History - 2021 - 11 - 22 - ID#qzqu5g
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Need to file an incident report today (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by Indiancheif
I’m a relatively new barista of about 6 months and today I had the angriest customer I’ve ever had. I work at a very busy Starbucks one of the busiest in my district. I at the time was covering for a partners 10 and doing both drive through window and order. A woman pulls up to the order box and says she wants a mint tea. I say ok we have the jade citrus mint, honey citrus mint, and mint majesty. She says I’m wrong her mint tea is the “medicine something.” I politely say yes the honey citrus mint is sometimes called the medicine ball did you want that. She says “yes and let me get…” and then stops talking. Keep in mind this is at peak and we have a line that goes around the store and is blocking traffic out side. After 45 seconds of her not speaking I ask if there was anything else she wanted. She said to me “what are you in a rush.” I made the mistake of answering honestly and saying “yes a bit of a rush was there anything else for ya?” At the time I misread her tone as just asking if we were in a rush and my yes was just a genuine answer. She responded to me with “ok then rush your F*cking manager to the window.” She then sped forward
All the baristas who were listening immediately explained to my manager what happened and took my side except for one who said I should never say we’re busy. When she got the window she told my manager I was rushing her order and was snarky and disrespectful. My manager told me that she knew I was incredibly polite and that there was no way I was being disrespectful. The woman then took my name and my shifts name and said she was calling corporate to complain. While I’m not worried about that, I do just want an opinion on if what I said was wrong. She asked if we were in a rush I said yes that was her main complaint
Lost_Treat_6296 125 points 1y ago
Honestly, I don't think you did anything wrong.

She asked, and the customer is always right accord to the siren queen, so you needed to answer.

You weren't lying, or blaming her, or exaggerating what was wrong.
easymachtdas 15 points 1y ago
these stories are why i am subbed... the abuse you guys must go to that isnt documented is mind blowing. Sorry they dont pay you guys better :|
Actual_Ad_4619 47 points 1y ago
everyone acts like we need to bow down to others while still complaining about time. you’re a human and you make mistakes. that lady took her entitlement out on you. corporate doesn’t actually care
777BABYDOLL777 38 points 1y ago
I would’ve said the same thing lmao
Angrysky_94 38 points 1y ago
Definitely not in the wrong
impasse602 25 points 1y ago
You are NOT wrong sweetie! Honestly she couldve been more communicative with you and said “give me a sec.” Instead of yelling.
drinkliquidclocks 17 points 1y ago
No you didn't do anything wrong, we shouldn't have to walk on eggshells for these types of people. Im happy your manager had your back.
SilkyOatmeal 13 points 1y ago
God I hate the hair-trigger psychos. What is going on with them that they're **that** angry **that** quickly over something **that** harmless???

When I worked at an answering service I once had a client go absolutely tits-to-the-wall apeshit because, as I was reading her messages to her, I included the area codes with the phone numbers. This was in a city that had just been split into two area codes, so I was including it whenever I read messages aloud. How much extra time does it take to speak those 3 numbers? According to this lady, a lot.

I ALREADY KNOW THE AREA CODE WHY ARE YOU WASTING MY TIME READING ME THE AREA CODE WHEN I ALREADY KNOW IT WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU I NEVER ASKED FOR THE AREA CODE I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS HOW DARE YOU WASTE MY TIME etc

This went on for several minutes. I was wearing a headset so this lady's voice was literally inside my head. She complained to my boss, but fortunately, he took my side. This happened 30 years ago.

People are just messed up. Hang in there.
peanutbutterbarbie 12 points 1y ago
i hate telling people to take their time because i absolutely do not need them to take their mf time especially in drive thru
LatteMeowchiatto 11 points 1y ago
I don’t think you were wrong. I think the customer was looking for a fight.
fawnaluna 8 points 1y ago
definitely not in the wrong, miss girl just has raging customer syndrome.
Assiqtaq 6 points 1y ago
She took what you said as implying she was being a problem. She was looking for a reason to be pissed off, if I'm being totally honest. That being said, you did nothing wrong but in the future do try to avoid these "absolutely no way you can answer this in a manner I could not possibly take wrong if I want to" questions. You won't be able to totally, I promise you. And only experience will teach you all the traps, but this honestly was one. No way in hell did she not know you were busy. She wanted you to piss her off. She'd have been irritated if you had avoided it.

Edit: So thinking, what could have been said instead?

Try making it an offhand remark, or a joke. Remove any stress as best you can.

"Oh my goodness, we have been so busy today! But good thing, right? Makes the day go faster. So whenever you are ready!" Super chipper and relaxed, nothing going on here ma'am find your conflict elsewhere ya bitch.

Or

"Not at all, it's been an awesome day. Whenever you are ready I am ready to help you!" Awkward, but I think you get my point and can easily find a way to say something similar that would fit you.
BookDragon1996 3 points 1y ago
Your fine corporate won't do anything and your manager/SSV backed you so it's fine that person was being an asshole
gallivantgoose 2 points 1y ago
I’m so sorry that happened to you, we get customers all the time that just park in the drive through and look at the menu so I understand the frustration. Definitely not your fault, she was probably either trying to get a free drink or piss you off for not prioritizing her. I’ve definitely had a few customers that would take forever to order or refuse to order at the box as “revenge” for a long line or any sort of mild inconvenience, so I can sympathize with you there! Keep your head up, and don’t worry too much.
TYVM143 2 points 1y ago
Just say u cannot lie. U were busy I’m not a liar. Not much they can see. Fuck that lady
mezzobarista 2 points 1y ago
You’re not in the wrong. Evidently, if you’re at peak and the line is going around the store and blocking traffic, clearly it’s busy and it’s just factual. The customer was being dramatic and clearly wasn’t assessing the situation around her. I probably would’ve responded with “oh no, wasn’t trying to rush you. Just didn’t know if you were still ordering” since she went silent for 45 seconds. Corporate doesn’t care to see the reality that baristas deal with on a daily and people who are so loyal to standard wonder why our times don’t meet up to them.
rudebii 2 points 1y ago
you weren't disrespectful, but telling a guest you're in a rush isn't good either (IMO). I get you answered candidly in the moment, but customers shouldn't be made to feel hurried along or a bother.

It's not something you should get written up or even verbally warned for, though maybe a "hey, if a customer asks if you're in a rush to serve them, say no, of course not."
Indiancheif [OP] 14 points 1y ago
That’s a great point and the point my other coworker made. i wasn’t thing to rush her I see why she felt that way though. I still think that was very dramatic response however.
The_Infinite_Doctor 9 points 1y ago
Yes it was dramatic by far. No one should be punished for making an honest error in judgment, particularly when it did no harm at all.
TemplarSensei7 2 points 1y ago
Along with that, when she was silent for that brief time, maybe ask, “I’m sorry, I didn’t hear that. Could you repeat that please?” They might be willing to be graceful on that.

But what that customer did was completely uncalled for.
Necessary_Low939 1 points 1y ago
They just want a free drink 😒
nothereforit97 1 points 1y ago
100% file a report. Anytime someone threatens to call corporate on any of the baristas I file an incident report because when corporate calls your DM you have a record of what happened on your side already filed. You can have your SSV do it on the IPad. Also if she ever comes back I would just refuse her service.
mcr0414 1 points 1y ago
You are not in the wrong. This is just the beginning I’m not trying to scare you. You handled this well. I’m so glad your shift handled it for you and had your back. Talk to your manager about an incident report but I am a almost 9 year partner and unfortunately (especially now, people are extra grouchy from the pandemic) this might happen again were a customer takes their anger out on you. This is why everyone is leaving retail and the food/ drink industry. This is a consistent problem and we don’t deserve to be treated like this. Keep your head up high, you sound like a sweetheart and ignore her. Very proud of you!
Heliotrope88 1 points 1y ago
You said absolutely nothing wrong. Your response sounds 100% normal to me. The reaction of this customer sounds super aggressive.
Royal_Development_25 0 points 1y ago
The manager can't document that of he/she hasn't heard your side of the story. Call corporate about that
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