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Full History - 2021 - 12 - 05 - ID#r9lx9c
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sm who constantly talks to me like im stupid. (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by promisestorm
i dont know how to describe it other than they have this infantilizing tone and it drives me INSANEEEEE 🥴 for context it’s harder for me to process things in a loud environment and i sometimes get anxious and panic when i cant fine certain things, so i just end up asking questions no matter how “stupid” because they told me they rather me ask than do something myself incorrectly. so thats what i do. but every single time i ask this one sm the tone in their voice is like “its right here you fucking idiot” and also talking to me like i’m a child (i am not). what should i do? does anyone else have this issue?
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promisestorm [OP] 1 points 1y ago
i should mention im pretty new too, so thats why it also bothers me. but ugh im sorry dude. ill try to hint at that bc im not very confrontational haha
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promisestorm [OP] 2 points 1y ago
youre right. thank u :)
Former-Highway-6665 2 points 1y ago
my coworker does that too but I realized it’s only on days that are super busy. She’s the sweetest on other days but the busiest times she treats me like I’m stupid (even when I don’t ask questions) so I think sometimes people resort to that voice. being completely fake always works and they let up eventually. like “oh thank you SO much!!!” because it gives them the opposite reaction they want lol
promisestorm [OP] 2 points 1y ago
hmm i should try that maybe then they’ll get off my case🤨 thats so annoying tho
Former-Highway-6665 2 points 1y ago
It is, it’s not that hard to be fake nice for a few hours instead of being rude. I’m sure she doesn’t mean it and probably does it to everyone 🙄 is she always there when you are?
promisestorm [OP] 1 points 1y ago
no thank god, only one of the days i work. but i never see her talk like that to anyone else. i observe closely 👀 lmao
Odd_Entertainment134 2 points 1y ago
My SM is occasionally the same. I’m still haunted by the memory of coming into the back room, her asking what I was looking for, me asking where oatmeal cups and lids are since she just told me to restock the oatmeal station, and her going “with the cups and lids” in the most monotone voice.

Dude. You have to MEAN that you think I’m dumb to say it the way that she did. I’d been working there a month and it was plenty feasible that they’d be somewhere else. Still happens every once in a while when I ask a question that has an obvious in hindsight answer. I kinda decided I have to deal with her thinking I’m an idiot because I know I’m not and it’s not alllll that she thinks about me. I may be an idiot to her, but I’m also an idiot that she can trust on bar during peak after two months working and apparently that makes me a little cool.

Add: Right, she always asks what I’m looking for in the back room even if I’ve been looking for it for all of two seconds. Most of the time it’s an inch in front of my face or she tells me where it is but I don’t process what she means so she just watches me search.
promisestorm [OP] 1 points 1y ago
yesss omg!! that last part about it being two inches in front of ur face — happened to me today on register and she gave me the illest attitude / tone of voice like i was five years old?! i was girl what is your problem? so WHAT you got a black apron stop fucking talking to me like that omg
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