You’re already cheating thinking this. Would you throw away all the memories you have created with your bf for this partner? Pls don’t date anyone you work with. Keep Business and Pleasure separate.
hoewenn10 points1y ago
I wouldn’t say it’s cheating but it’s insensitive. It’s pretty normal to have minor crushes in a long term relationship (assuming it’s long term). The issue is when people start acting on these what would be minor crushes, making it more than a teeny crush. But if she actually loves her boyfriend, she’ll cut off any non-work communication with the coworker and focus on her relationship with her man.
itsssmila8 points1y ago
I totally agree, it’s normal to find other people attractive but acting on it is a different story.
hoewenn4 points1y ago
Yuup. I hope OP does the right thing and cuts off any non-work communication with the coworker and starts reconnecting with the boyfriend
CultureTraditional561 points1y ago
it is a long term relationship, we've been dating almost a year and i just need help figuring out how to make the feelings for my partner go away because i truly want to stay with my boyfriend
hoewenn9 points1y ago
Like I said, cut off all communication that is not work related. Don’t have their social media, number, etc. Focus on working on the connection with your boyfriend, a big reason people catch feelings for someone outside their relationship is because something is subconsciously lacking in their relationship, and many cheaters end up not caring to fix the connection and just end up cheating.
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