I'm an SSV. I had a partner call out with a serious family issue AND a physical health issue (their back is out and they can barely move). I call everyone available to see if they can cover the shift with no luck.
My next partner comes in and she is pregnant. She tells me that she has thrown up already today and still feels bad and that she will definitely throw up again, but wants to stick it out as long as she can. I say, that if she throws up while she's here, I have to send her home. She says ok.
I call my SM to ask for some guidance. If both of them are out, I'll have a two person play from 4pm-close and I'm just looking for a plan. They do not answer at first and I leave message. One thing to note about the message is that I said that the partner that called out was "sick". I thought that was to the point enough that I didn't need to explain further.
A few minutes later my SM calls me back. I ask if they got my message and they say yes, but ask for another brief summary. I say another short version, again, saying the call out was "sick". The first question I am asked is if I did the COVID Coach with the call out. I pause and walk off the floor. I say no. They ask me if I asked any questions to the partner who called out, or if I just said "ok" when they said they were sick.
I say, "I don't mean to get frustrated with you, but I can't force them to come in if they say that their sick."
They realize that I'm agitated and try to defuse. They say that they aren't trying to come down on me but, "We have fostered a culture here that you are able to just call in and say 'i don't feel well' and we say 'ok'."
I may have said that it's also a family issue, but I don't remember anymore.
HERE IS THE ETHICS CONCERN (not that the above isn't as well really)
After all of that, they actually attempt to help me with my problem I called about. They asked me to ask the other two partners on the floor of they can stay late. One can, but only til 6pm. We decide that if the pregnant partner throws up again before the now 6pm partner leaves, I am to call the SM back and reformulate.
Within 30 minutes she throws up again. I tell her that I have to send her home, but I just wanted to call my SM real quick. I call and I tell them that she threw up. They ask to speak with her. I give her the phone and they walk off the floor.
A few minutes later they return the phone to me and my SM says the the pregnant partner has agreed to "work until she can't". Im shocked, but I say ok. My SM says that if it comes down to just me and the other closer from 6-close, to just do our best and leave a note with what we couldn't get to. But they'll only turn off MOP and Uber if it "gets to be too much".
The pregnant partner tells me some bits and pieces of her conversation with the SM, but I'm trying to stay away from heresay in this post.
She ends up staying til 7, but they are pissed and threw up again at least one more time for sure, before she left.
It was just a two man close from 7-close(8:30).
I'm just unsure what to do, or if there is anything I CAN do.
The first part is partly a breakdown in communication, but also made me feel very unheard and unseen. I'm calling you for help and the first thing they do is to try and coach me on how to sus out a "legitimate" sickness.
The second part really concerns me. She's pregnant and throwing up. Regardless if they are "contagious" or not, SHE IS VOMITING IN THE PARKING LOT! Like WTF. "Work until she can't" may have just been a poor choice of words, but that's really what was asked of her.
The pregnant partner told me that the only reason she stayed as long as she did was for me. She felt bad that I was being put in this position. What do I say to that?
What do I do? I looked at some of the Ethics stuff the company has published, but it's a ton of corporate gobbledygook. Do I call Partner Resources, or does she? Do I even call Partner Resources? Is this even something that will even be addressed.
What a shit day at work...
This healthcare got me trapped.