Hello! I am quite new to Starbucks, only have started in July, but I was wondering if we as partners have the right to refuse service? Today a woman came in and already started off very rude when she ordered her drink (which is pretty common so whatever) but then she stated "if you make my drink and there is any foam it is going on the floor" then repeated this to the barista on café bar. I personally was not interacting with her but over hearing the way she spoke to everyone boiled my blood. I was thinking what I would do in that situation, and wondered if we have the right to refuse service because personally I find that to be a threat from a customer. Especially because that has happened to us before, someone dumped a hot coffee into one our displays from anger but he walked out after. Has anyone ever felt uncomfortable serving a customer and if so how can you go about that in a way that will not get you in trouble with management?
clumsycalico106 points1y ago
I am a supervisor and I would refuse service. My blood is boiling FOR you. You absolutely have the right to refuse service to anyone who makes you uncomfortable, worst that can happen for you is someone else disagrees with your call and serves them themselves.
coolsexysmartvirgo30 points1y ago
my gm won’t even refuse service to a regular who put an underage partner in danger... wish i had u at my store
Oliviaaa-21 [OP]13 points1y ago
that’s good to know from a shift, I feel like some of our shifts will do something but others won’t so I just wanted to see if I can personally refuse the service without being in the wrong
blandrogyny10 points1y ago
you should have the third place policy on the door or near by on hand, you have every right to show it to a customer who is being rude or aggressive and tell them they have to abide by it or service will be withheld. threatening to throw a drink on the ground is absolutely within reason for this (also a shift who has had too much experience asking customers to leave)
Lord-Rico5151 points1y ago
I wish someone would the fucking nerve ppl have I swear
Necessary_Low93941 points1y ago
Yes u can. Partners have given refunds before n told them to go elsewhere
Karilopa36 points1y ago
she was being hostile and violated starbux's third place policy, no? ;)
drinkliquidclocks14 points1y ago
Have you tried simply asking your manager? That seems legitimately hostile, especially with a hot drink??? That's totally unacceptable and your manager *should* be on your side. No way to know how your own manager operates without just asking
Oliviaaa-21 [OP]9 points1y ago
We have a new manager and he’s not so on our side with customer interactions :/ but I want to talk with him because there is definitely a line between a rude customer and a hostile customer
patrickburn10 points1y ago
You can absolutely refuse service. When I took over my first licensed store we had a regular that would come in less than 5 minutes before close, order a complicated drink, and then proceed to berate tha baristas and have them remake his drink as many as 3 times. His drink was never rung up correctly either. He would order, tall white mocha, 4 shots, 4 pumps white mocha, 3-6 pumps of either toffee nut or praline(if we had it,) 4 raw sugars, and wanted it steamed to 200 in his personal cups. He only ever paid for a tall white mocha. As you’d imagine that much syrup would typically bring down the temp of the drink, but this was worsened by him vigorously mixing his whipped cream into the drink. Then announcing that it’s too cold to drink and must be remade.
I immediately started charging him full price. We were using 12-18 pumps of white mocha just in this asshole. He’d keep my staff there fooling with him as late as 15 minutes past close. So I also told him we’d remake his drink one time, but no more than that.
He came in maybe one time after that before blowing up on me about it. So I banned him and told the store nearest to us about how we told him he should be charged for his order and how he will be expected to treat staff if he expects to be served at other locations. That manager called me back a week later and they banned him too.
DingleberriesInMyBut6 points1y ago
I would’ve refused her service regardless if it was “allowed” or not. I simply would’ve looked at her and said “ma’am I’m gonna have to ask you to leave or I will have to call the police because you are threatening me and my fellow partners” and if she refused I would’ve gone off to the side and called the police because wtf is that
linipanini3 points1y ago
Lol we had someone hold our drive through hostage for not enough berries in their drink.. a half hour of banging on our drive through window and flipping us off and cussing me out, STILL did not get trespassed by my SM…she said “I want to give them one more chance to be nice.”
Vegetable-Rain76522 points1y ago
I personally have refused service to people like that, but some coworker with no backbone always ends up giving them what they want. We need to look out for each other and stand our ground with this stuff instead of rewarding shitty behaviour.
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