ooh i see. yea i think that you either are going to either be all in or all out. so you either are gonna be in their “face” and tell them that u are uninterested or stay allusive and avoid people like that as soon as u see it. at my store everyone knows i’m amazing with customer connections and that i have developed social skills, so when i step away from the window and im not talking with customers my shift or manager don’t tell me to go back or connect more because we have developed the security that i am connecting. they know i’m trying, so it’s easy for me to avoid those weird situations. i get called babe and cutie all the time by people and i just step away and say “let me check on ur drinks” and then wait for them to be done and rush them away.

you don’t have to be in those situations! if u have a good team they will understand!!!