I had to advocate for myself to get my bar training. The first thing I did was work a shift at a different store, and I told the SSV that day that I was inexperienced, but wanted the opportunity, and he let me co-bar during the shift. This helped with my overall confidence. Then I began to approach each SSV I worked with at my store and told them I really wanted to learn. I was always polite, I told them I was flexible, open to suggestions. One SSV in particular was very accommodating and took me seriously. I then ended up working a few shifts with some experience partners who took me under the wing, working on helping me with the recipes and sequencing, and those experiences really helped.
To recap: communicate your goal, ask for input, be willing to be flexible, show your appreciation for the help and support.
Advanced-Trick39321 points1y ago
yeah i definitely feel like i was the same way at first. like i would go out of my way to try to learn myself and it would be very overwhelming. but then it started feeling like why am i overworking myself for shift leaders who don’t actually want to put me in bar with someone else atleast? we have enough partners and my availability is very open except for mornings. so i deal with a lot of the slow time. my partners have even talked about how i was so eager to learn. but i guess i have to communicate that i actually need to be trained it can just feel extremely scary for me because i’m afraid of being taken as annoying or needy or something that causes others to not favor me even more lol. thank you for your response :)
Paprmoon71 points1y ago
I’ve been working at Sb for over a month. I have no idea what a clean play is lol and people who were hired back in October haven’t even gotten hot bar training. I’ve never even touched a cup on cold bar and I know how to do two things halfway. You’re not alone. Also a lot of my coworkers are “mean girls” and I have to listen to them gossip all day.
PomeloConnect32111 points1y ago
If your manager is kind I would absolutely talk to them about these things. It doesn’t have to be confrontational but it sounds like it’s time to be a squeaky wheel.
Clean play shifts should be rotated… in theory. However, it can be a tricky thing to schedule depending on staffing, people’s availability, etc. I got put on clean plays for like months in a row, while heavily pregnant, couldn’t get on a ladder, it totally fucked my sleep schedule. I started trying to get someone else to cover it but it was honestly a head scratcher as to why my otherwise very thoughtful manager was scheduling me like that besides the fact that everyone else made themselves unavailable(including a coworker who said she couldn’t be at work that late because she had class “early”… guess what time early was? 10am! My kid wakes up at 7am. Sorry rant over)
Bar training can be tricky depending on what times you are scheduled for. I would let everyone know you are eager to learn and they should find some times for you to get practice.
Whether you stay at this job or go somewhere else you will need to learn how to express your needs. If this is a job you’re willing to quit then you can at least consider it a low stakes way to get some practice with that. Good luck!
Advanced-Trick39322 points1y ago
omg i can’t believe they had you doing all that while pregnant. but yeah i figured they were rotated, because i have very open availability but so do a lot of my other partners. i guess it just bothered me because it’s the same 6 people working while two (including me) do the clean play. so to me it was like why me and not them? anyways you’re right about having to speak up about it now as much as i am afraid to. i don’t work mornings so i know there actually is time to train me but i feel like they are just choosing not to. thank you so much for responding :)
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