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Starbucks Baristas: The daily grind

Full History - 2022 - 03 - 01 - ID#t49pal
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"Welcome-In" Awkwardness (self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by Chrocus
To all of you behind the counter from all of us with crippling social anxiety:

We would love to react when we hear a cheery unidentified voice from somewhere in the building say "Welcome in!" but especially with masks involved, we don't know:

(1) for sure if you're talking to us or somebody else who just came in

(2) who said "welcome in" (like who to look at if we would respond)

(3) quite what to say even if we did know 1 and 2 (that's our problem sorry)

Been wanting to get that one out for a while...
elatednoodles 69 points 1y ago
We’re required to say it to everyone who walks in, and we honestly don’t mind if you never say anything in response. I too have social anxiety and completely understand if you don’t know what to say/are too anxious to say anything back.
herpaslurp 10 points 1y ago
I personally like to see some sort of acknowledgment. A head nod or scanning eyes looking for who welcomed them in. If the lobby is busy/noisy I don't really care at all; and generally it doesn't matter much at all, but I genuinely like the interaction.
Chrocus [OP] 11 points 1y ago
I usually just paste on a smile and hope that whoever said it perceives that as an acknowledgement. It's kind of the same as when you're not sure if someone is waving at you or someone behind you, it brings up all sorts of school-days psychological hangups...
[deleted] 26 points 1y ago
no one cares if you say anything back. i purposely look away after saying welcome in. it’s just something we’re trained to say
herpaslurp 6 points 1y ago
this is what i'm imagining it looks like

https://i.chzbgr.com/full/8455039744/hCC4979DC/meerkat-pop-up
cats_with_tentacles 11 points 1y ago
I wish it wasn't an expectation honestly. Out of the hundred or so people I greet every day, maybe 10 of them even look at me. I know part of it has to do with masks and not knowing who is greeting you, but still, seems like a wasted effort to me. I tend to greet customers who walk towards the bar or register more often than people walking through the door and I get a better response that way.

Also, we're so trained to just greet people, we have a couple of partners who just yell it out every time they hear the door, whether someone is coming or going, and that just seems so impersonal why even bother?

Idk starbucks focuses a lot on "customer connection" and I don't think its necessary. Good customer service is one thing, but fake/forced social interaction sucks
Chrocus [OP] 5 points 1y ago
Yeah once you hear it 3 or 4 times as a customer you know it's being required by management so it sort of defeats the purpose.
poopylilbutt 11 points 1y ago
Zoloft really did the trick for me!
batman_thedead 3 points 1y ago
same!
Illustrious-Air9834 2 points 1y ago
Prozac has also done wonders for me 😁👌🏻
Blonde-RU2-Mastrena 9 points 1y ago
Ever been to moes? We are supposed to be doing that. We see you in our peripheral vision and it creates a chain reaction of welcome in echos whether we see you or not. Just ignore us and know we are welcoming you even if we have not physically seen you yet.
herpaslurp 3 points 1y ago
Sounds like your SM hounds you guys on welcoming people in
Blonde-RU2-Mastrena 5 points 1y ago
Actually no. My SM doesn't really hound us about anything, really. She sat us down and told her we needed to work on it more. We do it specifically because we aren't being hounded? IDK. She isn't a micromanager. She isn't mean. She isn't constantly on us for things. She just said that we needed to focus on certain goals and this was just one of them we are all trying to improve on. Some of y'all sneak in and we don't notice until you're standing there for a second. I asked if we could put a bell on the door or something and she said she would ask if we're allowed to.
No hounding required.
herpaslurp 3 points 1y ago
Wow that sounds really healthy!
When I get my own store, I hope this is how interactions work with my team and I.

I've had about 8 different managers, and I think how quick they were being rotated through speaks to their ability 😬
Blonde-RU2-Mastrena 3 points 1y ago
High turnover tends to be a very bad thing for business. Yeah. SM is pretty chill. I prefer not being micromanaged. I actually get more done if given orders and then given the space to do the thing I was asked to do. Room for questions and guidance if I need it.

Micromanaging makes me extremely neurotic and I go into what I call "possum mode" where I freeze and become mentally paralyzed and can not function or do the task I was asked to do. Or at least do it to the expectations necessary.

Good luck! I hope you have the best team ever!
FfierceLaw 2 points 1y ago
Yah the SMs have us so conditioned we’ll shout “welcome in!” to a robber
Blonde-RU2-Mastrena 2 points 1y ago
The hypothetical robber is less likely to sneak up on you AND rob you when you welcome them in and let them know the whole store sees them! Statistics proves acknowledgement actually prevents petty theft and robbery. People like to rob people who aren't paying attention the most. 😀 So please welcome everyone in!
undertoe776 4 points 1y ago
Another reason we say it is so the person working front knows we have a guest... ...they may be turned around doing coffee or oven or one of a million other tasks 😁
dakokopuffs 3 points 1y ago
i literally don't care if customers respond or not. imo it's weird to shout at people when they walk in instead of waiting until you're close enough to talk to them at a normal volume lol. i feel like that policy only caters towards older generations but makes the younger generations uncomfortable
saddestgirl1995 3 points 1y ago
I feel like anybody who's a partner or customer who hates this would be appalled going into a lush store or working for one. me and my partner's make it into a meme and welcome eachother into the store when we go out for smokes or garbage runs. We cope ig
Thee_Lizard_Head 3 points 1y ago
One of the other reasons we do this which doesn't seem to be posted here is for SAFETY reasons too. It's also to acknowledge all people that enter our store "we see you and we are here if you need us." Creates more of a welcoming environment and deters those who aren't planning on using our space as intended.

Trust me, the amount of people I've greeted walking to the bathroom immediately and getting NO acknowledgement from them makes me unphased when no one responds.
FfierceLaw 2 points 1y ago
“Welcome in” also alerts our front partner that there may be a customer wanting to place an order in the cafe soon, assuming you are not coming in the place a mobile order or just use the bathroom
_circuts 2 points 1y ago
We're supposed to greet customers when they enter the store. If one person says it, you can assume it's from everyone behind the counter. You can ignore it even, many do. No worries!

Edit: As much as we wouldn't like you to be rude, even if you are we'd likely still be nice back.
SavannaHeat 1 points 1y ago
Agreed. As long as I hear a “thank you” when customers take a drink, I’m cool.
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goddessofwaterpolo 1 points 1y ago
We just want you to feel welcomed. You don’t have to respond if you’re nervous.
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cuseisalive 1 points 1y ago
My questions is where did “welcome in” even start?!?! I’ve never said it to anyone in real life, yet every Starbucks I go into everyone says it. EVERYONE! Why, I will never understand.
enigmaticpineapplee 5 points 1y ago
because were … welcoming you … into the .. store? i mean…
Boundtoloveyou 2 points 1y ago
I say it because I literally never know what time of day it is, and I have been coached on "Hey!" being somehow both too aggressive and impersonal. And "Happy day-part!" requires too much explanation for a casual greeting.
Chrocus [OP] 3 points 1y ago
And a very good latter portion of my shift to you good sir
Boundtoloveyou 4 points 1y ago
Verily, and to you as well!

Haha, I might have to use that on my coworkers tomorrow.
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