This shift is petty, misgenders me often, and has forgotten my breaks multiple times. She will give me my breaks last and cut me first. She will cut me off in the middle of tasks to give me a new one, and then complain when something isn't done. There's one position in the store I won't do, and she will frequently say I can either do it or stay doing the same thing all day. She's well aware of everyone else's preferences, and is fine to cater to them. If her favorite baristas are having a bad day, they can do whatever they feel like. If I'm having a bad day, she will talk shit about me. She lies a lot because she's old and always believes she's right.
It's gotten a bit worse since I had a meeting with my manager (all I brought up were the missed breaks and misgendering, none of the snide comments or when I overheard her talking shit about me). I don't know what to do. I've tried being nice despite it all but it's really exhausting. I just don't speak to her anymore unless I have to. I'm debating transferring because the clique-y-ness of this store is so bad, but a few of my coworkers are really great people. I don't even know if it's worth telling my SM.