Hi! I had my probation review with my SM this week and the only thing he flagged up was that I am overly helpful. My intentions are good and I am genuinely trying to help and reduce wait times, often by jumping onto an unattended cold bar, but I need to stop this.
It is SO hard to stand around doing nothing when there is clearly things I could be helping out with. In most jobs, you would get into trouble for doing nothing when there is work to be done.
We don’t have planted positions at my store except during intense rushes and generally move between stations quite a lot. We also only have one barista on both hot and cold bar. We are a cafe & DT store but EVERY drink (cafe/DT/hot/cold) go into the same queue.
One thing I never, ever do is hop onto bar and start grabbing drinks (unless I’ve been specifically asked to). However, there are some occasions where what I believe is common sense prevails.
Today for example, the person on bar had a line of hot drinks for DT - no hot drinks for cafe. There was a Frappuccino at the end of the line - the only cafe order in the queue at the time, with the customer waiting at the handoff point. Cold bar was empty and I wasn’t doing anything. To me, the logical thing to do here is to make the Frappuccino so that the cafe customer isn’t waiting for a line of DT drinks to be made when it’s not really necessary for them to wait, you know? I asked the bar person if they’d like me to grab the Frappuccino for them. They said yes, but I got the feeling I annoyed them by asking.
Another time while I was on DTW, the customer was waiting for a refresher, the empty cup was unattended at cold bar while the bar person worked through a rush of hot drinks, my “don’t stand around doing nothing” initiative took over… I went to make it myself, but was told by my SSV to leave it alone. So I just had to stand there and… stare at the empty cup I was waiting for? It makes me feel so guilty! I could make that drink and have the customer at the window served and gone.
It is little instances like that, where helping out feels natural and obvious to me, but that my SM has asked me to be more mindful of in case other baristas feel I am overstepping.
On the other hand, sometimes when I hop in to do things, I get a genuine thank you from the person I’ve helped where they do appreciate what I’ve done. For example, sometimes the person on bar hops over to take a DT order when they aren’t busy, and if I hear the customer order a drink that requires shots to be pulled into the glass, I’ll get those shots queued up and pulled so that by the time the bar person gets back to the bar, their shots are ready. It shaves 20 seconds off the customer’s wait time.
I just feel really overwhelmed as to when to be helpful and show initiative to reduce wait times, and when to step back and stick to the rules of the (very loosely followed) floor plan.
How do you guys overcome that natural instinct to help? I’m finding it really, really difficult and am now overthinking everything I do on the floor.