yvesnings 35 points 1y ago
Report her ass. Misgendering someone while they’re not around tells me you don’t respect that person. Her behavior and attitude towards you also tells me that she doesn’t deserve that role/position. A SSV shouldn’t make you feel like this. I’m deeply sorry. No one person deserves to be treated like this. We all deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. Your voice matters. Your existence matters. You matter. Do what’s best for you and your mental health.
baebaebluebird 14 points 1y ago
Do the report. Starbucks literally has pins they sell for profit with pronouns on them, they better be making sure their work environment is the best and you deserve better.
Solid_Wish 7 points 1y ago
Starbucks does not take transphobia lightly, especially when its coming from a superior. Report her, get coworkers who have witnessed this to report her, she needs to be fired. Also I'm so sorry you gotta deal with that. Fuck her.
orangeeelemonnn 2 points 1y ago
REPORT HER!! Absolutely disgusting behavior that deserves termination. You don’t deserve this. Definitely go through with the report and try to remember details as best you can - witnesses are great too. I’m so sorry this is happening and I hope you get this sorted out asap.
Chemical-Less 2 points 1y ago
Document everything, get a couple witnesses to make testinony, then report the shit out of her. Thats never okay, im sorry you have to take it :(
rudebii 2 points 1y ago
Start making notes of every instance where the SSV treats you poorly, including misgendering. Write down as many details as possible. Goes a long way when reporting this kind of thing/taking action.
Comfortable-Plane944 2 points 1y ago
Contact ethics and compliance ASAP https://businessconduct.eawebline.com. They’ll take care of it real quick