Work always wants me to take out the trash and I say no(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by Complex_Committee636
Hey partners, I was wondering if anyone else had this experience. So my location always asks me to do trash runs and each time I say no and explain why (bc I have social anxiety and my ex who I have a protective order against has violated his restraining order twice and I’m afraid to be out side bc he knows where I work and frequently drives through that area) and most of the time the shift leads understood and just had me switch tasks with another partner who was more than happy to go outside. Recently a morning shift lead told me I had to tell our GM and I did and they were upset I didn’t want to do this task and explained I needed to request accommodations which I have put in the request for. Prior to this conversation I didn’t know I needed to make a request otherwise I would have done so sooner but I’m afraid they’re still going to try and ask me or if the request is denied I don’t know how to explain I will literally leave this job if they want me to go outside. I don’t understand why this is something they want me to do specifically when we have lots of people and other partners are more than happy to switch tasks. Has anyone had an experience similar? Does this sound like a weird situation or is this about the standard for something like this?
catarinavanilla12 points1y ago
It’s good you did the accommodation and I think it will help. They do need the documentation about this on file bc without it existing, it looks like you’re trying to skip out on an unpleasant task. I believe that you feel in danger from your ex, and the best thing you can do for now is get the ball rolling on the accommodation and communicate with your SM and SSV on duty; if they are not receptive, go to your DM and see if they can either expedite your request or back you up in the interim. I hope it works out so you can feel safe at work!
Complex_Committee636 [OP]4 points1y ago
Thank you, I appreciate your response I will try that if today they aren’t receptive
Electrical_Metal_1063 points1y ago
I work in a really shady store and I always ask the barista if they feel comfortable taking out the trash. If they don’t, I ask who would like to take out trash and they switch tasks. It’s not really that big of a deal.
rascallytrashbergs2 points1y ago
I had this problem at a different job in a grocery store where our garbage and method of throwing it out was so disgusting that I would throw up if I took it out. I’m normally a bit queasy but I’ve had times where I struggle to keep anything down and it becomes a miserable ordeal, and when I throw up it’s so violent that I just kind of have to lie down for the rest of the day. So I’d avoid garbage, and my coworkers were fine with accommodating me. Manager who hated me began singling me out over it, and it became such an issue that it was brought to the store manager and HR, and I just kept getting told that I was “unable to fulfill the obligations of my job” in a way the implied they were going to fire me over this, and were like “if we accommodated everyone who had an issue, people will pretend to have issues just to avoid trash.”
femalehomosapien181 points1y ago
I had this isssuee as my ex. Would sit outside and wait for me and followe me. They allowed mee to emergency transfer so they wouldn’t know my new location
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Complex_Committee636 [OP]3 points1y ago
My ex sexually assaulted me so no I don’t think so
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Complex_Committee636 [OP]5 points1y ago
If you never been sexually assaulted or stalked to be honest you opinion on the matter isn’t relevant and also it isn’t helpful to the questions I am asking
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