I was hospitalized before I was supposed to begin training as a barista. What, if anything, can I do?(reddit.com)
submitted by JustAnotherU-Hauler
[deleted]159 points1y ago
I’m so sorry. The fact they couldn’t have even said “Get well soon” or show any kind of concern for your predicament is a big red flag and FUCK them for that. If you have the option to look for a job elsewhere, I suggest that. You don’t have to do f*cking anything except get healthy. Your health and wellbeing will always come before this job. Always.
JustAnotherU-Hauler [OP]56 points1y ago
Thank you. I’ve been stressed about this, and I appreciate the reminder that my health comes first.
[deleted]48 points1y ago
And since your manager is such a self-absorbed ass… get well soon love from all of us in this subreddit
mrcupcake1813 points1y ago
I second this!! Don’t stress, you did you’re part and now just focus on getting better! ❤️❤️
jazzysoranio7 points1y ago
That’s exactly why I have my doubts about your manager. They should appreciate that you’ve stayed in contact with them despite being hospitalized. And they should have the decency to not give you anxiety over their schedule when you’re already suffering a medical emergency. You shouldn’t have to worry about work while also suffering in a hospital. A simple “don’t worry, I’m taking care of your schedule. You just focus on getting better” would have been appropriate.
mylegalusername3 points1y ago
I’m going to tag in. I’ve been here for 5yrs., and I’ve constantly put this job and my last before myself or my health. Like doubles, triples, open-closes for coverage, a 26hr. shift, and working 22 days back to back, etc. It definitely affects you slowly, physically and mentally, and now that I’m taking three days off a week, I finally am starting to feel like I can breathe.
Always put your health first. Not once or twice.. every. single. time. I’ve had partners call out saying they need a mental health day, and I just tell them to try finding coverage, if not, we’ll be fine and enjoy the day to relax.
As far as Starbucks policy, the handbook says it’s the managers job to find coverage if you’re calling out sick.
vegan-trash9 points1y ago
The fact that I’m so used to this that it wasn’t a red flag to me they didn’t ask if they were okay lol
Jeffyhere4349 points1y ago
Quit before you start if you can. Manager sounds like it’s not gana be a long job anyway
JustAnotherU-Hauler [OP]46 points1y ago
Crossposted from r/Starbucks. I hope that’s okay!
Hi everyone,
I’m in a bit of a situation, and I would appreciate any advice, if you have it.
I had an interview at my local Starbucks on June 1, and on June 4 I was offered the position. I was supposed to begin training yesterday, but I had a medical emergency and was hospitalized.
I contacted my manager (I’ve attached screenshots of our conversation, if that helps), thinking I’d be well enough to be discharged and begin training today. However, my doctor found more problems and recommended me for more longterm care.
I don’t know how long that will be, which I’m attempting to clarify, and I’m definitely not in a place to be working right now. I was excited to get this position, though, and I was wondering if there’s anything I can do?
I’m considering asking my manager if we could call and discuss the situation when I know how long I’ll be in the hospital. Does that sound reasonable? Has anyone experienced something similar?
Thank you!
Beg1nAga1n96 points1y ago
Call your manager and talk to them directly. Stop texting. Your health comes first. Most managers will probably be sympathetic and even if you can’t work now it likely won’t affect your ability to apply or work there in the future.
ih8yogurt35 points1y ago
One of the reasons to do it via text is so there’s a paper trail. But yes I believe op should call the sm as soon as they are physically able
JustAnotherU-Hauler [OP]19 points1y ago
I’ll do that when I’m able. Thank you.
LockAzzy10 points1y ago
No, always text. You want proof of what was said and when. Or email. Whichever
evviiieeee3 points1y ago
starbucks policy is that texting is not an acceptable way to call out. sure, you can discuss it over text, but OP needs to call the store first
designated-grapes5 points1y ago
I would call and email or text your manager a recap of what you spoke about so you have something in writing. Start it off with something along the lines of "hi, I appreciate you taking the time to speak with me today on such a short notice. Just to recap our conversation, ________"
Markedsoultheif16 points1y ago
For what it’s worth, the statement about it affecting your training probably just means it’s going to be pushed back for however long you’re unable to work for. It just means the schedules for yourself and your trainer are going to have to be shifted a little bit. Essentially, during your training you are even counted as part of the staff on the floor so it isn’t impacting them too terribly. If anything, the person who was training you is probably just going to be utilized as a normal partner for your training days instead of acting as a trainer who is unavailable to help on the floor.
official_koda_27 points1y ago
SM sucks big time. Can tell just from texts. I wouldn’t bother with the job if you’re financially able which it sounds like it wouldn’t be a problem. My SM would never have been pushing you to work so soon and just not even being like “get better” the sm is giving red flags
violentfemme1720 points1y ago
Fuck that SM, for real.
Theotar15 points1y ago
Heal up and go to work when you can. Not like you can force your body to heal faster or anything.
Free_Background233112 points1y ago
when i was seriously injured and hospitalized before i was supposed to begin training my manager was completely understanding and let me start MONTHS later. this seems like a red flag already to me, just be wary, your health comes first.
Minute-General-209010 points1y ago
one text was enough, if your manager isnt worried or doesnt have any thought of you to respond back then screw them. Look for another job and get well
Ecstatic_Math_38399 points1y ago
It’s not worth it…
Ashleybux9 points1y ago
First off, as an SM we aren’t allowed to ask for or receive medical notes from partners. You need to call your SM directly, stop texting. I get a million texts from partners all day and I definitely don’t respond to all because I need off time too. Did you already go through your first sip?
ih8yogurt12 points1y ago
As I do agree that calling is more professional, op May not be physically able to at the moment. Also another possible reason is to have a paper trail
ih8yogurt4 points1y ago
This sounds like my old sm. Is your Starbucks next to a “superstar beverage” store? If so, QUIT NOW. especially if you haven’t filled out your i9 and w-4
JustAnotherU-Hauler [OP]3 points1y ago
Just a quick update—thank you for your advice, everyone!
Many of you pointed out that my manager isn’t showing any regard for my health. Since this is one of my first jobs, I didn’t know what to expect, and I appreciate the knowledge that that may be a concern.
I did call her when I was able, like some of you suggested. She didn’t say much, beyond not knowing what to do, as she had scheduled my training for this week and the next, with the goal of having me work independently by June 29.
She kept reiterating that she’d have to find someone to cover my shifts, and I’m honestly not sure what that means, as I definitely can’t start training until next week (at the earliest).
I’m just doing what I can for now (and what I was told to do), which is to go in with a doctor’s note when I’m able. I’m a bit stressed, as it’s still not clear if I can keep the position, but I appreciate all of your reminders that my health comes first; I’ll try to focus on that.
Again, thank you!
ehooning3 points1y ago
This is a huge red flag run while you can lmao they clearly don’t care about your health at all
Elliotisnotokay3 points1y ago
Try calling the store. There's a chance your manager didn't see your messages. If they give you a hard time then the jobs not worth it. Get well soon
Admirable_Pie_54483 points1y ago
If you want tell your Manager for an LOA(Leave of absence) the longest you could be out for an L.O.A is 3months and still have your job secure
ih8yogurt7 points1y ago
Not if you’re under 6 months. I tried applying for an loa after a grippy sock vacay (caused by my sm) and was denied becauase I was under the six months
crazycocopuf4 points1y ago
I think it all depends on the chillness of your manager. Im on an LOA as we speak for 6 weeks.
Admirable_Pie_54481 points1y ago
Crazy I didn't know that thanks I had a 3month partner take one this year idk what our sm told him buy he said he was on LOA for an internship he got
ih8yogurt1 points1y ago
It might’ve just been my manager gaslighting and manipulating me again tho
tourniquette22 points1y ago
My store just bumped my training back. I wound up having to share a trainer with someone. But as long as you communicate, they’ll work with you at most stores. Corporate policy is really lenient for illness.
tantelope2 points1y ago
they don’t care about your well-being at all.
also, you get 8 training sessions?? I got 4.
Synphonie961 points1y ago
They changed the training method due to complaints.
Humble-Hedgehog95462 points1y ago
My cousins father passed away days before she was supposed to start a corporate job and she had to go home for a month, they responded with more understanding and welcomed her when she arrived back in the country. Your manager can at least respond to you.
SNES1822 points1y ago
Your manager sounds like a SUPER COOL PERSON! Nothing you or they can do. Just keep them updated. I would personally try to work somewhere with some more compassion. I hope you get well soon!
missgurll2 points1y ago
not u dealing with the wrath of a petty starbucks store manager before even starting (also you aren’t even scheduled as coverage to help out on the floor so moving training really shouldn’t affect anything other than when u and ur trainer work) 😭 i’d honestly run as fast as u could
MastodonEmotional2912 points1y ago
I’m pretty sure they aren’t even allowed to ask for a doctors note. Run for the hills
buffysummmerss1 points1y ago
I hope you’re doing better. The fact that your manager didn’t seem concerned for your well-being is a huge red flag. It’s mind boggling to me that they’d ignore your text and not ask you if you’re okay.
tnayrbeiluj1 points1y ago
totally unrelated, but why are your training hours scheduled during peak? maybe i’m different, but i would not want to train when the store is in total chaos. but that could just be my store. anyways, i hope you feel better! don’t stress about it! your health is way more important!
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