SSV talking shit about me behind my back….do I fight him in BOH(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by mar121212
Hey y’all, looking for some advice. I’ve been on time off for 3ish weeks and found out that a shift has been undermining me to newer baristas for a while. Context: I am basically the sole trainer at our store, I have 6+ years of coffee experience, I’ve been at my store for just under 2 yrs, etc — also, I’m a BARISTA, this partner is a SHIFT. What happened this particular time is that the SSV was questioning a newer partner about blending CF on 4/why they were doing it that way, and the barista said “that’s how M*****a taught me to do it” (my manager trained me and that’s what she told me to do btw) and the SSV responded “Well M*****a doesn’t know anything.” Y’all I found this out and was LIVID — and this isn’t the first time they’ve said something along the same line to other new partners. I know that I know what I’m doing, but the DISRESPECT to undermine me to someone I’ve trained? WHEN YOURE A SHIFT AND IM A BARISTA?! I’m about to confront the SSV directly when I get back. This person has said racist, transphobic, misogynistic things so many times, and has been formally reported for all of those, and nothing has been done. My manager never does anything about any complaints against them, and honestly this one isn’t even bad in comparison — it’s just the principle. You don’t get to be in a position of power and talk shit about baristas to other baristas, I’m not standing for it — especially when THEY are the one that’s bad at their job. Basically I’m wondering what you guys would do if you were in my situation because I’m ready to square up with him at this point.
HamburgIar_37 points10m ago
Whatever, don't listen to these straight edge partners in here. Next time you see that ssv you should sucker punch them in the throat and then pour cold foam blended on 4 all over their face while they are trying to breathe.
ghostymost220 points10m ago
Not the cold foam blended on 4 😭
mar121212 [OP]9 points10m ago
I love u
Low-End49871 points10m ago
How about blended on 3….
jesuselcapitan11 points10m ago
I wouldn’t “square up” with them because that is definitely the fastest way to lose your job and potentially risk jail time. I would notify your store manager that you’re having issues with this SSV and if it isn’t resolved, go above your SM, or even request to transfer stores.
Queasy_Judge240510 points10m ago
am i the only one here who didn’t take “square up” literally? yes, you should confront them. also you left your name uncensored on here, i can’t tell if you meant to but just a heads up.
mar121212 [OP]9 points10m ago
Pls u guys I didn’t mean I’m actually gonna try fighting them!! I just mean I’m going to confront them 😭💀
vareenoo8 points10m ago
Yes confront them. That’s not professional at all and baristas should not be pit against each other
kurokittie5 points10m ago
don’t “square up” with them, be an adult & address it head on.
mar121212 [OP]4 points10m ago
Lmao that’s what I mean by square up 😂 I just meant that I’m ready to confront them as soon as I get back
Gobbikins3 points10m ago
I usually put cold foam on 4 lol
Jokes aside, confront this person. Make sure you have a third person watching because it could get out of hand.
Danny_z642 points10m ago
I'm from Chicago but live in TX, next time I'm in town to see my folks I'll fight him for you Lmao jk
ChikiBeibi2 points10m ago
Literally I will clock in to your store with you and tag team him, i HATE SSV’s like him! I will go to your store as a customer and take the survey and say he slapped me. Do whatever it takes!
icedcarfee1 points10m ago
i think you’re maybe taking things a bit too much to heart but if it really bothers you take it up w the SM, if SM won’t do anything bring it to ethics & the DM.
Necessary_Low9390 points10m ago
I read cf as coffee frap lol. But it’s cold foam, it’s nice to blend on 4 if the foam is not foaming up. Anyway, I don’t suggest squaring up because that would lead to termination as it gets physical. How about just confronting and talking shit to that shift? Since u don’t get reprimanded anyway. Think of all the things u need to stay before the confrontation. And maybe get promoted and then talk more shit about them. Also why u put ur name then block it?
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