Sorry in advance, but I'm really salty about this. About 2 years ago, my fellow ssv and very good friend got promoted to asm. A few months later, I asked her to be in my wedding and she said yes! Fast forward a year, and my sm got transferred. My new sm was going to be the friend! 3 weeks ago, I got covid and ended up getting long term side effects that are keeping me from going back to work so I had to go on a medical leave. My friend just called me today, with 6 days to go until the wedding, to tell me she can't even attend it, let alone being a bridesmaid. Apparently someone at our store thinks it looks bad that she's going to my wedding while I'm on a medical leave. I don't get it. Am I missing something? How is this a problem?