I felt so insulted. Cafe bar, nonstop mobiles, partners say I’m killing and I got compliments from customers last week saying I was great at attending everyone’s needs and greeting them. DM asked me that question and I’m floored. I answer “no” because I figured they must not think so if they’re asking. They said how can you get better, I said with practice, and they said, and how do you do that, and I said by doing, all the while I would stop and start barring to pay attention only to be told to keep barring. (I was later to told that was an exercise to practice.) I started crying silently and they asked if I was frustrated and I shook no, and they asked if wanted to be removed and I said no. They left me alone and I kept barring, tears streaming down my face. I feel like no matter how much I improve or how good I feel, it’s never enough for these people and I’m so traumatized. I just want to feel like I can do my job well and do it happily sometimes. 😭😭😭 I feel so hopeless.