We have a regular who says darling to any female looking batista after wvery single sentence. As a pre t trans man it's very dysphoria inducing ngl, he's nice but damn 😭

“thanks ma’am” also ewww

I got really excited for you until I seen the rest of the post 😅 So either a) he is still in the headspace of taking care of someone who needs positive reinforcement and it accidently slipped out or b) you are in fact a good girl and had no idea no matter the genitalia or orientation.

So my question is...how did it make you feel?

Ewwwwwww

He just got back from training dinosaurs and thought you were a velociraptor bc you look so cool 😎

Oh wait that's clever girl. Doesn't matter, you're still cool

same energy as when a customer called me mommy. I am also a man.

I clocked in for my shift the other day and the *first* customer I spoke to shook his head at me in judgement and said, "Smiling like a GOOD girl." Almost ruined my good mood.

We have an Ubereats driver who always makes comments like ‘oh very good girl’ or like ‘oh this is how I like it good girl good girl’. We recently renovated our Uber eats pick up corner to make it more organized and easier for them to pick up their stuff and he made the same comments and I just literally looked away and walked away and just tried to ignore him. Yuck

Yuck

"Sweetheart" "Honey" "Dear" "Babe".
I am a guy, who has a ton of anxiety. I understand it's typical for older women to do this as per norm, but please for the love of god stop it makes me incredibly uncomfortable

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Good girl 😏

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