My manager hired a baristas gf because they’re friends and now the two baristas are being assigned shifts together.. is that allowed?(self.starbucksbaristas)
submitted by Rude_Wear
Meggilli91163 points6m ago
Unless they’re making out on the floor who cares?
iatetoomuchcatnip141 points6m ago
Yes, we do allow baristas to know each other before working together.
Liberalmuffin11 points6m ago
i’m dead this made me giggle
trbpanda133 points6m ago
yes if theyre both baristas
sweetxfracture100 points6m ago
Is is affecting their work performance or the “third place”? Yes? Then that’s a problem. If it’s a “no” then it’s not your business, and just go about your day. Seems like a weird gripe unless they’re holding hands or kissing on the floor
canidieyet_61 points6m ago
i personally don’t care if people date whether it’s barista/barista, barista/shift or shift/shift. as long as there aren’t issues
if anything i’ve noticed more favoritism between friends that are scheduled together than people who are dating 🤷♀️ but that could just be bc my store is full of adults that act like they’re still in high school lol
chowderchop47 points6m ago
I’m pretty sure unless one of them is a manager (the couple) it’s fine. The concern is if one of them is a manager, it would be a conflict of interest. I don’t know, maybe someone else knows better than I
Traditional-Emu-140327 points6m ago
They’re equals, who cares?
esaeklsg10 points6m ago
I feel like everyone is getting stuck on the dating couple. I'd be more worried about the manager hiring a friend. If the dating couple acts inappropriately, it's the manager's job to deal with it. But a manager hiring a friend doesn't set up the best dynamic imo. They should have been reccomended to a different store.
CBukowski80810 points6m ago
As long as one of them aren’t in a management position it’s totally fine. If the relationship ends up becoming a problem at work then there’s an issue as well. Totally up to your SM’s discretion what happens.
Danny_z649 points6m ago
If they live together and share a car, that might be an issue for them that they needed arranged
chickenwing05047 points6m ago
dude, why do you care lol
eckinz5 points6m ago
like what are you upset about? do they keep it professional on the floor?
the only way it would be a problem is if they were like physically intimate on the floor… other than that why does it even matter? 🤷🏽♂️
Brief_Coat65265 points6m ago
Are they getting it on in the rr? Kissy face in the back room? Ignoring their tasks to argue or plan dates?
besoinducafe3 points6m ago
I work with my bf and there’s no issues with that. It depends on the couple.
shellybean87601 points6m ago
So it’s defs allowed but they also took out the statement that said you can’t work with a significant other at a different level.
darkwolf5231 points6m ago
I’m pretty sure it’s not ok if it’s a manager + barista but could be wrong
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deathbeforedecaf19841 points6m ago
As long as one of them isn’t a lead then yes
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underdoglush-8 points6m ago
Call Partner Resources to voice your concerns if you have any. They will give you best answer. And if there is an issue, they will tell you how best to go about the situation.
Beg1nAga1n-4 points6m ago
There is no rule that you can’t date coworkers. Hell, even shifts can date baristas. Is it a stupid idea? Absolutely. Is it against the rules? No.
When favoritism happens, that’s when it’s against the rules. If you notice that they can’t do their jobs correctly because they’re working together, document it. Continue doing so until you feel comfortable going to your SM (or your DM if you don’t feel comfortable with your SM). Come at it without bias; your goal isn’t to whine about them working together or their relationship but that they’re unable to do their job well or create a good environment for others while they’re on the same shift.
If this just happened, give it some time. Maybe they’ll be able to keep their relationship out of the store and it will be fine. I’ve worked with siblings before who got along great and never made work weird because of it even when they worked the same shift. I’ve worked with a ssv who was dating a barista and it didn’t work well so the barista transferred to a new store.
d_wan43 points6m ago
Why the downvotes?
Beg1nAga1n2 points6m ago
This subreddit loves to downvote without talking about it. I’m guessing people don’t like that I said it’s a stupid idea and how to handle it if they can’t work well together. I tried coming at it how to handle it from a non biased approach but 🤷🏻♀️
The question was “is this allowed” and technically yes it is. The people saying yea because they’re both baristas etc - there is no rule about that. Shifts can date baristas, baristas can date each other. SM’s can not date.
b99__throwaway1 points6m ago
exactly. at my old job there were a couple sibling pairs that worked together and got along fine. my husband (then bf) also worked there & even tho i was HR, there was another person also so anything to do w my husband got handled by the other HR person & it was fine. people didn’t even realize we were dating bc first of all, why would you want to make your work environment weird or uncomfortable for yourself by arguing about personal stuff or engaging in excessive PDA? and second we were just polite to each other bc even tho it was all above-board & management knew we were together, we were worried ab people feeling like he was only hired bc i was in HR. anyways. if they don’t overstep anyone’s boundaries it’s completely fine & allowed per company policy, like you said
Ok-Responsibility735-3 points6m ago
Actually, couples aren't supposed to work together, because it could lead to awkward situations and fighting.
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