how are my fellow partners doing? this last week has felt so crazy with the holiday. idk if it’s because this is my first holiday as a shift..but it’s felt so overwhelming. some days it feels like my anxiety levels are through the roof. i just wanted to come in here and say use this post to vent and know you’re doing a great job because it’s not easy!
Complete-Field465345 points6m ago
Honestly? Not good. Why is it that during the Holidays that customers are so f-info mean? And they get personal with it too. I just hope it eases up soon 😔
snailsdotcom [OP]18 points6m ago
I know and it feels so sinister with christmas music constantly blasting, this year made me resent xmas it feels like
Complete-Field46538 points6m ago
I’ve never felt less Holiday-ish in my life because of this, dude.
giornoh1 points6m ago
i just had a guy cuss out another partner who was on window when i was on DTO earlier today. we both had to take a breather and i checked in with the other partner before we served the next customer. i swear customers are worse during this time
Shoddy-Trainer-805118 points6m ago
Straight up depressed dreading my next two shifts. I feel like I’m invisible and no one offers me the same amount of support and we’re going to be so busy 😭
darkwolf5231 points6m ago
Sameeeee.
justhere33313 points6m ago
I’m so tired of getting yelled at. We ran out of the holiday print on our grandes and ventis. It’s been a riot
snailsdotcom [OP]14 points6m ago
dude….same. didn’t realize it mattered that much to some people
justhere3333 points6m ago
It’s exhausting already being yelled at for having no whip
gingergal-n-dog2 points6m ago
We about to run out of venti iced cups district wide!
dekuflowers11 points6m ago
I’m so fucking over the holidays lol. We’re out of so much product and cups, and our manager is on our ass about over using labor but we’re busting ass to keep up with the customers so I feel like our hard work isn’t noticed at all. I just want it to be next year already.
snailsdotcom [OP]10 points6m ago
I FEEL THE LABOR THING. we had a meeting and they said they’re cutting labor at night WHEN THATS WHEN ITS THE WORST!! Especially during flu season too and tons of call outs
kivakitty238 points6m ago
This month is hard. I lost my brother to suicide right after Christmas last year. I forgot to request off the anniversary of his death and now I’m unsure if I’ll end up breaking down crying on that day or not. I might be just fine, maybe working that day will be what I need. I feel like I’m just being a baby and should just suck it up and pretend everything is ok. Haven’t even done his memorial yet… Sorry I was too much here.. but that’s where I’m at…
TarantulaTeeth133 points6m ago
My sister committed suicide in September. Put your shift on the marketplace and try to get it covered if you can. Even if you're "okay" that day, you should have the option to be off, if you think you might need it. Sorry for your loss.
kivakitty233 points6m ago
I actually ended up getting it covered. I walked in today, and there was a note posted of someone looking to pick up hours that day. I saw it as a sign and they took my shift. I had this rising uncomfortable feeling the closer I get and probably having it off is better. I’m sorry for your loss too. It’s so utterly heartbreaking and confusing. My whole heart goes out to you and your family. Nothing can describe how you are feeling.
Helpful_Hour_21951 points6m ago
Just wanted to say, you absolutely are not being a baby. This was a tremendous loss and there is no timeline on grief. It's not something you get over...but something you will walk through for a lifetime. And that's okay.
rosesandlavender27 points6m ago
I’m a green bean so it’s been difficult… trying my very best but still feel like I doing terribly. Thankfully my coworkers are pleasant and really don’t mind me asking a million questions but yeah. Customers especially regulars can be so incredibly mean and hot bar can be so stressful and overwhelming bc I don’t remember all the pumps of syrups and shots… hopefully things get better w time bc honestly I dread going in to every shift.
SovietApple7 points6m ago
The vibes have been off
KindlyFenik4 points6m ago
Oh God it's not going good bestie!😂
durqandat3 points6m ago
Fucking terrible but thanks for asking 🙂
PotatoFairy4513 points6m ago
My mental health has been absolutely awful but it's not even because of work. In fact, work is my safe place rn. So glad I have this job
certifiedsnax3 points6m ago
ngl ive felt pretty burnt out lately. i clock in and count down the minutes until i can go home bc i only work 4 hour shifts and it feels like a waste of time to go in 5 days a week for only 4-4.5 hours. all of my regulars are so so nice and i love seeing all of them but god i’d be lying if i said i wasn’t tired of trying to fight for hours all the time
regmeg423 points6m ago
I have one shift this week and it is 4 hours long baybe. Cannot wait to use my sick time so I can pay ~reeeent~
realnewtgeiszler3 points6m ago
Horrid. Doing training to become a shift when even our shifts right now are stressed out and being under constant criticism from my manager has made work a living nightmare. We're constantly understaffed because of the labor shit, even encouraged to send people home early when we literally can't because we're scrambling every day to even make drinks and send food out let alone prep or do closing tasks or clean. We're one of the busiest stores in the district and somehow we're one of the only ones who haven't gotten a store remodel when we severely need it, no one listens to us whatsoever, and on top of everything customers have been absolutely fucking rancid. My mental health is at a very low point and even my medications can't handle the amount of constant stress I am under.
Training_Yellow_89623 points6m ago
I've been so tired and just not good lately. Customers are being so mean and it's nonstop. Thanks to the peppermint outage I've been screamed at every single day this week like it's my fault.
DragonsandBoba3 points6m ago
Started on November 10th, and I'm in the busiest store in my state. I dread going into work but I'm doing it for the free degree tbh. I feel like I didn't get nearly enough training especially for hotbar (why do the teas and matcha confuse me so much?) And whenever they put me on hotbar for drive thru I wanna cry and I feel like I'm guessing so much and I'm asking so many questions but some of my partners get annoyed even though I had like 5 days of training and the customers have been so mean and memorizing holiday drinks is aggh
cherrythot2 points6m ago
I’m not doing good. I feel extremely hopeless and exhausted.
molwalk2 points6m ago
currently off ill due to burnout to the point where I'm physically sick. the idea of going back in makes me miserable. I can't take the stupidity and entitlement of customers anymore
DSHOMESTUCK472 points6m ago
Could be way better. My store has had to cut everyone’s how’s I went from 38hours a week -15 hours in span of two weeks. I’ve already picked up another job and stressed about Christmas let alone everyone els in my store is stressed and depressed. Let alone the customers are on something. Screaming over a 6 min wait for 4 drinks. During peak. I’m over it
g_pvp_32 points6m ago
6 min wait during peak? better than ours
DSHOMESTUCK472 points6m ago
Gotta give it to my store we really do try our best not for higher numbers or anything just cuz we Generally enjoy it 99% of the time
g_pvp_31 points6m ago
same most of my coworkers feel the same
Ew_Oxygen11242 points6m ago
No :)
BlondeRoast1232 points6m ago
i feel this so hard 😂
darkwolf5231 points6m ago
Ngl my mental health gotten bad but Im a smoker and drinker.
imnotcalmable1 points6m ago
I worked 12.5 hours yesterday so not great. 😞
catsandmermaids291 points6m ago
I basically almost had a mental break yesterday but I’m much better today,it feels like my store gets busier and busier each day
darkwolf5231 points6m ago
Same. Been swearing more and more lately when it get busier. :,)
StickyNoteMurdercat1 points6m ago
Not good. I am having my disability flaring up from trying to balance work (I have 2 jobs with 1 being a performing job), gifts, chores, and trying to find time for resting. My store is actually okay atm but some customers are very mean to me (I’m usually up front) for our store being out of certain things & I wish I a could change things. It sucks. 😔
green_magic_frog1 points6m ago
Honestly, I am getting whiplash every time I go to work. One second a customer will compliment me and then the next one will be yelling at me. I'm not even joking, someone today yelled at me in DT "GET ME SRIRICHA!!"
Same with my coworkers. 1/2 of my coworkers are cool and 1/4 I would say I am good friends with and get excited when i see we have the same shift. The other 1/4 either a)does absolutely nothing and slacks off while the rest of us are running around doing stuff or b)doesn't know how to communicate with the rest of the team, leaving me VERY stressed. One particular coworker gets on my case for little things (like batch blending 2 frapps in an 11 drink order) and when she is trying to find where someone is in line, instead of using the app she just pulls all of my stickers and leaves me with like a 20 sticker line on my bar and then no one helps me make ANY of them and actually ask me to help make THEIR drinks. I do it because I understand it is stressful, and I don't wanna be selfish but it seems like no one cares abt how I feel.
It is a well known fact from my coworkers and manager that I have GAD, on and off depression, and possible PTSD. Most of my managers (both shift and store) understand that when I am not having a good mental health day, there are certain tasks that are very hard for me to do (ex, if I'm having a bad PTSD day they won't put in a position where I have to deal with customers) but then there are a few who don't seem to care and then I end up having a major panic attack from which my close coworkers have to help calm me down from.
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